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I am almost 2 years post op and I haven't told anyone about my journey as a sleever except my parents and sister who hasn't told anyone either. I have a boyfriend I been dating for about 7 months. He has no clue I had the sleeve surgery . He always say babe you are starving yourself eat. I'm always like I can't I'm not hungry. I want to tell him but don't know how. Any suggestions will help me tackle this problem.

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How serious are you about this guy? Do you imagine a life with him? If so, it's time. Just be honest, maybe start with your life story. Have him tell you his, then you tell yours. If you can't be honest, that says a lot about how much you trust him. If you can't trust him, why tell him? Every marriage is based on trust. Those that aren't don't last. So you need to be realistic with yourself on how involved you want to get with him. I wish you the best, these things are always difficult, until you get past the trust thing. Good luck!

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