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I had my last supper last night for Christmas with my family. When I took my last bite I said Goodbye food, you have not been a very good friend to me.

Technically I should have been full liquids all day, but I fudged a little to be able to get thru the day.

Full on full liquids starts today. 13 days & counting.

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Wishing you the best of luck. Don't say goodbye food because you still want to be able to enjoy food (it may take a while to get there but you will). My NUT says not to be afraid to eat. I will always love food. Now.. instead of living to eat, I eat to live. I just make better food choices. You will be fine.

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Call off the disciples this is not your last supper! It may be your last "large supper" ! Good luck on your pre-op and surgery!!! Stay strong and follow the rules!

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I had my last supper last night for Christmas with my family. When I took my last bite I said Goodbye food, you have not been a very good friend to me.

Technically I should have been full liquids all day, but I fudged a little to be able to get thru the day.

Full on full liquids starts today. 13 days & counting.

You aren't saying goodbye but next go around...you'll actually TASTE what little you CAN eat. There were a few "must haves" the rest the garbage I used to shovel in held no temptation.

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Y'all have misunderstood me. Gheesh.

I flipping know I can eat again, but not for a long while & not in the same way. I'm not ignorant of the process.

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I called it the same thing. People need to chill, it will be the last supper for awhile. Good luck to you my friend

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Y'all have misunderstood me. Gheesh.

I flipping know I can eat again, but not for a long while & not in the same way. I'm not ignorant of the process.

A little testy are we? If you don't want others advice...don't post. I thought I knew it all going in. Then I had the surgery and had to live it while trying to pull my foot out of my mouth.

Best of luck

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Lol this cracks me up!!!! I was also joking, you know making a play on words...man I don't know if it's the stress of the holidays or what but people are so pissy today!

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I wasn't rude mama. Read my post please and keep in touch. Best of luck.

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@dw40. I think I understood you meant you were saying a fond farewell to your old way of life because after surgery you will never eat the same way again.

I am nearly 5 weeks out and I honestly feel I have been given a new life. That doesn't mean to say I haven't obsessed about food: it's just taking my head a little longer to catch up to my body!

Finally just to say there is no better support site than this one. I am in the UK and I have been waiting 8 weeks to get login for a UK site but since I found BPal I haven't looked back. Here you get support in many different ways (including respect AND humour)

Good luck on your journey xx

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@@dw40 Hey! I wasn't rude to you! I was joking with you and even said "good luck with your pre-op" then you insinuated we thought you were "ignorant in the process" we've heard that term "last supper" a gazillion times on here! I can't speak on how everyone else interpreted it but I knew what you were saying and the others where giving you advice! Your response did sound pissy! Any way sorry if you thought people where being rude it wasn't my intentions. I hear Thinnertimes Or obesity help may be good sites! Good luck!

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