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its horrible for you to have to go through all this. The sacrifices that are made just to be healthy and not overweight are lost on people in general. No one thinks that an obese person is giving up anything in order to lose this weight. You are evidence of some of the harsher things that get sacrificed. I truly wish you well and wish you did not have to undergo this. You have your chin up and will to succeed , that I can see. You are a string person now and I wish you the best, in everything.

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@@glgk30 it sounds like it's his problem not yours, but so sorry that you have come so far to discover this-what did he think would happen?I agree that you must be a strong person to have accomplished all that you have in order to get a TT & liposuction. I wish you continued strength & perseverance to get through this, but don't let him take away your accomplishments.

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@@glgk30 it sounds like it's his problem not yours, but so sorry that you have come so far to discover this-what did he think would happen?I agree that you must be a strong person to have accomplished all that you have in order to get a TT & liposuction. I wish you continued strength & perseverance to get through this, but don't let him take away your accomplishments.

Thank you for your support and it feels good to have people who understand the struggles we go through in our journey.

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its horrible for you to have to go through all this. The sacrifices that are made just to be healthy and not overweight are lost on people in general. No one thinks that an obese person is giving up anything in order to lose this weight. You are evidence of some of the harsher things that get sacrificed. I truly wish you well and wish you did not have to undergo this. You have your chin up and will to succeed , that I can see. You are a string person now and I wish you the best, in everything.

Thank you and it feels great to share my feelings.

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It sometimes feels

Like this relationship is the biggest battle. Wondering if I won't be a statistic. I flirt I did at my heavyset weight heck I started at 13 and never stoped. Had a huge overly dramatic fight for flirting with the old guys at the Feed store. Same flirting we have done for 10 years. He asked me when was I gonna marry him and I asked him how bigs that diamond? We do this all the time. In front of my other half. I turn around and wtf she's drove off and left me!!! Not a joke. I played it off as it was a joke to not embarrass this man. Lord give me strength. I had a moment. I own everything the ranch the cars the trucks. She would have to move to her parents and live on disability. That was almost the straw that broke the camels back. # week one # weak one

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