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I am new to this group. I will be meeting my doctor for the first time December 11th. I am scared and excited at the same time. I don't know what to expect and I hope I can have the gastric sleeve surgery. I am a wife and a mother to a seven year old daughter who asked me if I would be able to go to her wedding. I am so tired of being tired. My daughter tells me that her friends ask her why I am so big. My husband and daughter and I went to watch his son graduate from boot camp and we had to drive the entire trip to South Carolina from Texas because I couldn't fit in the plane seats. I get bruises on my thighs when I sit in chairs that have arms. I am 6' and weigh over 400 lbs. I have tried Weight Watchers, LA weight loss, Nutri System, cabbage Soup diet and the grapefruit diet. Writing this entry is the first time I have admitted my weight to anyone.

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Welcome! You have a whole WLS family here that can help you through your journey and I'm sure you will find stories comparable to yours! Nice to have you.

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Hello and welcome we have some things in common im still pre op working on finishing my testing to move forward started in July feels like forever hoping to have surgery by end of jan

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My insurance does not cover the sleeve procedure so I am hoping for a surgery date 4 to 6 weeks after December 11th. It is so wonderful to find a group of supportive people who all share a common bond and goal..... to lose weight and be healthy

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I had my surgery done 12/5/13 so my one year anniversary is coming up :) I have lost 100 lbs. so far. I feel so much better and I am so excited for you all!

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I almost cried reading your post. When the children worry its always heart wrenching.

I think that your decision to have WLS is an amazing step forward in taking back your health. Congratulations! We make our choices mostly for ourselves but our children are huge factors in the decision making.

I've not been sleeved yet but I'm looking forward to claiming my seat on the losers bench. Hope to see you there!!

God bless!!!

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Congratulations for starting your Adventure. I have to fly to my daughters and knew if I gained an ounce I would need a seat belt extender etc. I am now looking forward to my next flight!

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Congratulations on taking your first step to an amazing journey, I was sleeved on Nov 18,the best thing I ever did for my self.! Down 22 lb's!! an feeling great!!

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    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
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    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
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    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
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      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
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    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

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      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

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