Lack of attraction

[psymom 12]

You look great. Remember attraction is 10 percent looks and 90 percent attitude. I have a friend who goes out with me girls night out. Without fail I always end up with some cute guy flirting with me. To put this in perspective I weigh 150 pounds more then her. I tell her all the time that people see the you in which you project. Simply put; sexy is a state of mind.

Edited December 1, 2014 by psymom

[BitterSweet* 835]

I agree with @@psymom, but I think big girls can be easy targets for men. I think that sometimes when a man sees a big woman and hits on her he's wondering if she cooks with gas or electric and what she can do for him. I think many (not all) assume big girls have low self esteem and will just accept whomever, whenever. I simply adore any woman who acts like a lady and carries herself as such, no matter her size.