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I'm not even kidding you right now. I don't know why. I mean, of course, it's expected that with the loss of weight, my hips will get smaller. But it's not just that it's getting smaller, it doesn't even look like the butt I had 10 years ago when I was still slim. It's literally gone. I don't know if that's just the way it looks since my belly isn't as tone as it was back then, or what. But crap!!! I liked my poofy butt I used to have. I'm kinda bummed.(Well not really...I'm lovin the weight loss and the measurements loss...still. *sigh*)

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I feel you, my bum was one of my favorite things about myself, even when I was at my heaviest, and now...booo. Gonna have to concentrate on those squats and lunges.

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It's funny that we have no control over where the weight comes off. My ass and legs went first.

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Flat as a pancake!

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Ummm ... mine, too. And I think I know where it went.

I spent the last three years sitting on it. And beneath all that accumulating ass fat, it shrunk.

Edited by VSGAnn2014

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I now call mine a back with a crack!!!!

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OMG! You mean this is COMMON!?!?!? Nooooooooooooo! :*(

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My boobs are melting, wish it was lower!

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Just seconding (or thirding?) the squats/lunges recommendation. I've never had a nice ass - wide but flat, but at 46 I've got more of one than ever! Thanks to a personal trainer. It really works! Not "there" yet, but making progress. Just did 60 squats today.

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Mine deflated and is on top of my thighs.

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It's literally gone.

@@Jennifer Rogers

can't control where we loose weight, different places, more weight loss in some areas than others :mellow:

i was kind of a strange case (consider the source) :lol:

always wore my big 2X elastic blue jeans and big tops

weighed myself - but never really saw/noticed what i was looking like

one day after my shower i looked in the full length mirror and just stood there, turned etc

when i turned

i realized my buttt was - gone, gone, and gone :o

but plenty of skin hanging down :(

i was shocked :huh:

went to hubby and he said, "yep, I've been noticing!!" ;)

so after alllll these years, butttt is gone :o

"but", i don't miss it :lol::D

kathy

Edited by proudgrammy

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Mine used to look like two cats in a sack. Now it just looks like the sack.

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