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Hello! December 1 Surgery Date - Scared buy determined.....



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After researching and scheduling the various pre-surgery appointments, I am a go for gastric sleeve surgery on Monday, December 1. I have a BMI of 60. I have never had any surgery before. I am fairly terrified of the surgery and possible complications but I had to do something. And I wasn't able to do it on my own.

I started my pre-op liquid diet on Monday. 2 weeks. I am starving and dealing with the mental issues of not eating. Or not eating what I want.

I have been hear a few times to read posts but this is my first post. I am glad I found it. My family and friends are being tremendously supportive but I don't think anybody can truly understand like somebody in the same boat. So thank you for having me in your boat!

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Thank you for sharing. I know I speak for man when I say we know you can do this. You've come this far, it wont be easy but youll do it. There are great people here who will help in anyway they can. Be strong.

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It's going to be great! I am sure you have a great team behind you. It is life-changing and all for the better. Please keep us posted on how you are doing!

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While any surgery is scary, the alternative is scarier!

It's done laproscopically now, so it's less stress on your body.

This was only my 3rd surgery...gall bladder and hysterectomy previously...all within 5 years.

I was more excited than nervous when I was scheduled as I truly believed in my decsion and how my new tool would help me.

Very little problems (dehydration...but that was on me...but it wasn't severe)

The first few days of the pre-op liquid diet are the worst as your body de-toxes...but it should be easier and you get closer.

Also you can go to InsureNutrition.com to see if you qualify for Protein shakes, Vitamins and scar cream all covered by your insurance.

We are here to help you...but trust in the program! It is the best thing I EVER did for ME!

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I was really nervous going into it too, and I had previously had two c-sections and my gall bladder removed. I had surgery last Thursday (11/13) and I was questioning my decision for the first couple days after, but not any more. I'm feeling more normal and looking forward to the months/years to come!!

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