Dubai Scouser 2 Posted April 18, 2015 I won't be telling my work about the surgery. I also require hernia repair which is the reason I will be giving them. The only person I have confided in is my husband. At present I don't even want to inform other family members. We live in a different country to all our family so they won't see me in the recovery stages. I will be 13 weeks post op before my family see me again and then I will make a decision if I tell them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites