Did anyone NOT tell their job about surgery?

[AJP1243 46]

So far I have got away with not having to tell them anything. But my one manager will probably ask because that is the type of person she is. Very nosey so she can gossip about people.

[VGB 130]

@@AJP1243 Just say, I have been minding my own business and it's working really great for me!

[heav85 123]

I work at a public library, its only part time so I am taking off on my own time missing hours and such. But I have told my boss, her assistant and another co worker who was the substitute assistant while the other assistant was out. lol. I secretly had some books about the surgery ordered and some of the ladies that work back here with me were talking about it and how they wouldn't have it done and how scary it is. I felt some negative vibes so IDK what to do. My job requires me to lift 20-25lb boxes of books some days. Should I tell them I'm having gallbladder surgery or hernia surgery or what? Plus I'll be losing weight and they will be suspcious.

[Sexy Granni 34]

I have shared with my team at work. Especially my lunch team. They are supportive so far.

[downsizingdiva 459]

I work at a public library, its only part time so I am taking off on my own time missing hours and such. But I have told my boss, her assistant and another co worker who was the substitute assistant while the other assistant was out. lol. I secretly had some books about the surgery ordered and some of the ladies that work back here with me were talking about it and how they wouldn't have it done and how scary it is. I felt some negative vibes so IDK what to do. My job requires me to lift 20-25lb boxes of books some days. Should I tell them I'm having gallbladder surgery or hernia surgery or what? Plus I'll be losing weight and they will be suspcious.

My opinion, none of their business, I'd keep it to myself...enjoy the journey!

[VSGAnn2014 12,992]

Telling people you had gallbladder surgery sounds great to me. It would explain perfectly how you can't lift much for ... as long as you decide to tell 'em you can't lift much.

[heav85 123]

Telling people you had gallbladder surgery sounds great to me. It would explain perfectly how you can't lift much for ... as long as you decide to tell 'em you can't lift much.

Yea I am probably gonna have to have help lifting some stuff... I'll just have to tell a few people to put stuff where I can get to it. lol. Is it ok to bend over?

[LiaNani73 11]

I do not have a date yet, goal is January. I have been open to my job and co-workers about my surgery. I work in medical so I believe it will help me to get this in their heads that I am having weight loss surgery, if problems do arise and I am unable to work or work less, I believe they will have a easier time processing it. IMO

[VGB 130]

I think I have pulled it off!!! My vacation begins Monday!

[mclorrie 219]

I was open with my boss & a few co-workers and they've all been very supportive! I don't feel bad when I have to leave early for an appointment, because my boss told me "whatever I need!" I feel so blessed to work for the company, & the people I work for! No surgery date for me yet, after this month I still have three more doctor supervised appointments. I'm looking forward to the day I get to announce my surgery date! :-)

[downsizingdiva 459]

I didn't tell work. It worked out fine. I deserved some time off anyway.

Edited February 14, 2015 by downsizingdiva

[kp1971us 31]

I am a teacher, so I had to let my principal know, but I just told him I was having surgery - I didn't figure it was any of his business as to what kind of surgery I was having. I did tell the other teachers in my department - we are all friends and very close, so I wanted their support. I haven't started my preop diet yet, so I don't know if I'll get a lot of questions. Also, I'll have to tell my students since I'm going to be out 8 days, but I'm not sure yet how much I'll tell them - I teach high school btw.

[gilit 2]

Hi,

I am in the same situation. I am getting sleeved on 2/25 and have not told anyone- the only person who knows is my husband. Anyway, I am a middle school teacher in a private school. It's a bit of a fish bowl...everyone knows everyone's business. I have 40+ days in my sick bank....just going to use them. Don't plan in saying anything.

Best of luck!

G

[artblitz 21]

I have told a few people but not HR. Just taking off some time. It is really no one's business. I do not need to be replaced. I teach at the university level and my courses are done.

Helen

[heav85 123]

Yea I told the boss her assistant and one other person. No one's business