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Hi all. I'm scheduled for sx dec 9. I'm located in Essex county. Would love some mentors as well as buddies. I'm starting to get a little anxious about what to expect after the surgery. I've read all the research, watched at least 100'videos on YouTube but still feel like I don't know what to expect. Am I going to be able to get enough Protein in. Water? What happens if I feel full? They say don't push but they also say make sure you get all your water and protein in. All these thoughts keep running through my head. (Plus others)

First off it'll be ok I promise.

You'll have some pain but just do as much walking as you can. Walk and get up on your own. If they offer you pain meds at the hospital you take them all lol.

Second don't worry so much about getting enough protein and water it'll be fine its really not that hard once you get the hang of it. If you feel full then stop drinking or eating don't over do it TRUST me I've over done it at least twice and it is not a fun feeling it's the worst pain ever. It'll be fine worry about these things once your there right now just be excited for this life changing experiance!

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@@Aribay1 thank you so much for the encouragement!! And advice. I'm a total control freak and always the one taking care of everyone else it's strange to be the one who needs the support ????

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14 months post op here in NJ.....you can ask me anything...in this post or in a private message

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Hi all, tomorrow is the day!!!! Needed to read the boards for some encouragement. :)

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