HYCIERRA 144 Posted November 14, 2014 Hi. So many of us have a goal weight in mind... do any of you have a goal size? I've been up and down my entire life. The biggest was a size 22/24 (just prior to my surgery)and my smallest size was a size 5... 20 plus years ago. Remembering back, I think I felt my healthiest at a size 10/12. That is what I'm aiming for. I'm currently a size 16 and only 4 months post surgery...so maybe I'll make it to a 6 or 8, but would be satisfied with the 10. What's your goal...or is it all about the numbers on the scale? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
James Marusek 5,244 Posted November 14, 2014 I never had a goal to reduce my clothing size. It almost came as a surprise as the sizes started dropping off. I actually found it to be a great motivator during the weight loss process. I would go to a store and buy clothing that was so small that I could barely fit into it and a week later it fit like a glove. I went from a size 46 in pants down to a size 33 and from a size 3X in shirts down to a size small. Yesterday I went to store and found a pair of size 32 jeans that fit so I bought it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FindingSassy 38 Posted December 22, 2014 I think back to the happiest time in my life and I weighed in at 129. That's the weight I'm aiming for. It's not set in stone or anything. I just want to be happy and confident in myself again. I will be so excited to shop in the normal sizes again and not in the fluffy ladies section. Size is beside the point, get to where you are happy, that's all that matters! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Samantha Ann 46 Posted December 29, 2014 I'm a bigger boned lady, so I will never be small small and I don't want to be. I have never really looked big. Though I was a size 26/28. I was all hips and booty. Now I'm a size 22. My face has gotten smaller but not much, my chest has gotten smaller. My goal is to be 200 lbs Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetdove 6 Posted March 3, 2015 i think that ideal size is something put upon us by society. Personally I'm a size 46 and my goal is also to be where I was happiest at 178lbs. size 14/16. ultimately I want to enjoy working out again. I want to be able to swim a lap without losing my breath. i want my healthy self back. I may change my mind once I've reached that goal. I'm eager to get to my surgery date. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shannpann 18 Posted March 3, 2015 I based my goal on what my ideal weight is for my height. 130, I haven't seen that since junior high school. I'm only about 40 lbs away, and while I really didn't expect to make that goal, I actually feel it is possible now. I have no idea what size I will be when I get there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MamaTo3inNH 100 Posted March 3, 2015 I'd be happy at 8/10. I carry my weight well... When I met surgeon for my pre op visit he was surprised at my weight, said he never would have guessed lol. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
walkaboutlady 7 Posted March 22, 2015 I'm six months post op and currently 283 pnd but started at 388.8pnd.... I want my weight to be close to my height 183cm. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cupcake 801 Posted March 22, 2015 My idea goal would be a 8-10 pants, I am now a 16 I went from 3 x shirts to a larger shirt. and now wear 10/12 dress .I'm loving my new size but would like to be smaller, my goal weight is 170 ang I am 10 months post opt I know I will get there because I am so determined . It is nice to reccieved compliments from everyone and have men run and open the door for you . Good luck everyone I know you all can do it . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dub 9,922 Posted June 13, 2015 I've worn 5xlt and 6xlt shirts for most of the last 15 years. Five years ago I became highly motivated to adhere to strict diet and exercise like crazy. 120 lbs of weight dropped and I was down to wearing 3XLT and some 2XLT shirts. Gained it all back and am feeling every ounce of it right now. Hoping everything lines up and this bypass surgery takes place as hoped in December 2015. Ideal size was the question.......I saved most of my smaller sized clothes in belief that someday....somehow....I'd get back to wearing them again. Tossing them just seemed like I was giving up the hope. If I was wearing 2XLT & 3XLT shirts with 120 lbs off........and I truly need to lose 200+ pounds.......then I'm anticipating wearing an XL or XLT sized shirt by the end. 6'4" at 250lbs sure will beat the current 6'4" 450lbs. Lord knows I can't wait to get there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikkiperezcassar 36 Posted June 13, 2015 I definitely have a clothing goal. I recently put all my smaller clothes that I haven't worn in years to my guest closet. It will be like shopping once I can fit into them again! I'm currently at my highest a size 22/24, I'd love to be a 8/10 but like most I haven't been there since high school. It's almost hard to believe it's really possible. I'd love to be able to head to the mall and shop with my girlfriends again. Now I just come up with excuses not to go because I can't fit into the clothes at the stores they all shop. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
losing_the_band 133 Posted August 3, 2015 My first time around, with the band, I got down to 135 and felt great. I'd be happy with anything below 155, though, because I still felt great about myself at that weight. I always used to say that I was big-boned, but once I was actually at a healthy weight, I realized that I wasn't big-boned at all. Even the spots that you don't think carry fat, like wrists, get thinner. I found that I was actually fairly petite, other than having relatively wide shoulders. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dwinette 21 Posted September 6, 2015 My goal weight is my ideal body weight=140 I'm 5'3 SW=225 CW=179 SD=4/27/15 I've got to make it happen! 40 more to go! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathy Coop 193 Posted December 29, 2015 I started at 368 and my goal was 215. I ended up 155 with bones and spine sticking out. I just had a baby and I am up to 190. I would like to,get down to 170 ish. My doctor is pushing for 140 but come on, this is just gross.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jess9395 5,449 Posted December 30, 2015 I started at 368 and my goal was 215. I ended up 155 with bones and spine sticking out. I just had a baby and I am up to 190. I would like to,get down to 170 ish. My doctor is pushing for 140 but come on, this is just gross.. image.jpeg It may be more slender that your preference, but I wouldn't call it gross. Different people have different builds. We can work to maximize our build to fit our aesthetic desires, but we have to work within our genetic makeup. Health is the most important thing anyway. Good luck with achieving your goal! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites