AlanaRN 419 Posted November 3, 2014 We waited almost 2 weeks. No issues. We have sex often and always have. I think I feel more confident now so it's been better. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vannort 2 Posted November 3, 2014 I have to say sex is awesome since I had surgery I don't miss a day.Pam Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ready 4 Changes 24 Posted November 3, 2014 My Dr. Also said as soon as I feel up to it. (He didn't mention my husband may be up to it.. before I was even considering it...) I am 2 weeks out... and the last few days my husband and I have had sex twice. Heading into TMI area... but being honest... first time... I was a little nervous, afraid he might hurt me with too much weight on my abdomen, so I held his body up with my hands a little... Second time, I was on top, so no pain or pressure on my stomach. Just a thought ladies and gents... kinda private and embarrassing,.. but a real question deserves a real answer. We didn't go through all this so our spouses and significant others wouldn't want us... this is a good thing. Its nice to be loved, just be careful. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pinkbunies 359 Posted November 3, 2014 We're talking about surgery, poop, getting our stomachs cut out... come on is this really a TMI area. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pinkbunies 359 Posted November 3, 2014 oh and i'll really throw an off subject matter in there... i'm eating Chinese food haha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thintrappedinafatbody42 14 Posted November 11, 2014 My doctor advises to wait 3 weeks. I waited until 2. My husband never complained to me about my weight, but since I have lost over 30 pounds, it is more frequent. Hope this helps. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shell88 157 Posted November 20, 2014 I'm hoping I get some sort of desire for sex back.... 3 weeks until surgery and I've had sex maybe twice in the past 3 weeks..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ArtDLG 16 Posted November 20, 2014 After surgery, did you find that your sex life got better as you got thinner or did it become non existent? How long should a person wait before having sex after Surgery? 3 weeks down, and I think it was around day 10 when we started to have sex...this past week though has been GREAT, getting back to my old self really works for my wife. So yeah, if you are ready go for it!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites