Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Should it stay or should it go?



Recommended Posts

I just got approval from insurance 10-17 so surgery sometime in November!!! Well going through my drawers and getting out all the summer and putting in the winter I had a hard time parting ways with a lot...did anyone one else? Should I keep it or just get rid of it? I still in the back of my mind is unsure if the surgery will work....what did you all do?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Like you I worry that it won't work. I'm keeping mine until spring then will get rid of it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi I am 5 months post opt tomorrow and I have held onto all of my clothes I wear them to work and I am drowning in them , I just wear a tighter belt until I buy new clothes, I dont want a lot of clothes with different sizes so I am holding on to everything until next year when I am 1 year post opt then I am treating myself to a new clothes but I did purchase some shirts since I went from a 3 x to a large shirt. and two pairs of skinny jeggings.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Did u have ur surgery?

I just had surgery 10 days ago. I'm down 13 lbs. But that does not justify getting rid of my summer clothes. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Do u feel good after 10 days? I plan on taking 2wks out of work...I work in retail and I think I will be goin back close to Black Friday and I am nervous on how I will feel

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I feel really good and I'll be ready to go back to work next week. I think I would be saying the same even if I worked retail.

Good luck!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just hope they understand but like any retail store ur just another employee

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had the same though - I am scheduled in Nov too and thought about tossing my summer clothes. But since I really don't know how much I will lose or how fast, I think I will hold onto them until I KNOW they are too big, and then it will be even more fun bagging them up for Goodwill!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I did not remove my clothes until they were too big. I am glad I did it in these stages. For my own enjoyment I would try on every piece then place in a To go clothes basket. At first the amount of clothes leaving was overwhelming and I had a hard time. Could be it was about all my clothes gone. After working 7 years to make this professional closet full of clothes.

I have since did this two more times.

The last times weren't as hard because clothes were from goodwill and yard sales. Plus in and out of them too fast for attachments.

I have went from a size 30/28 to a 16/18. In 10 months down 125 pounds.

I wear a lot if skirts now can keep them longer.

I would keep them just for you can see the changes happen...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I believe you will. I think we are so programed to failing on diets, we have a hard time believing this time it will work!

It does work. Stay strong. At first I kept thinking what if? What if in a month or next year I need these clothes back? My family finally had to encourage me and help me see this part of my life was over and to let it go and give the clothes away.

Good luck!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LadyVeteran1

      Sleeve surgery is on April 14th.  I am counting the days!!  Can't wait!
      · 2 replies
      1. Brookie2shoes

        Me too girl!! Are you in the full liquid diet right now? It’s sooooo hard!

      2. LadyVeteran1

        Not yet. I was told I only have to do 24 hours of a liquid diet. But I have my pre-op tomorrow so I’m going to confirm if I need to do longer.

    • buildabetteranna

      Down 33 lbs and slightly stalled, but I'm gonna reevaluate and push through. I started back to work last week after 2 years of being disabled due to mental health as well as my weight. It's a great job and I'm just so happy to have this opportunity at a second chance at life. Hope everyone is having their best journey ❤️ Together, we got this!
      · 2 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Great work Anna! Keep it up 😁

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 1 reply
      1. stevieoriole

        Am feeling this right now. My surgery date is 4/1. Sign the consent tomorrow. I feel like I overloaded myself with too much info, too many opinions. Got to the point where I was wondering if I should do this. Then I thought of my reasons for taking this step and that settled my nerves. Still get moments of doubt but am striving forward. Am just going to follow my book from the surgeon. Joined this because I was told by my dietician that I should do this for support

    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×