Post-Op regrets?

[Bryan Graeve 50]

I felt like maybe I had done something wrong on the second day in the hospital. And the third day I was home. I've not had one regret since. good luck with everything

Same here. The night after surgery I said to myself, "What the !$^$ did I just do?" The next morning, and since then, I've been fine.

[NicoleSW 78]

Thanks for all the responses! It's good to see all the positivity that comes from having this surgery!

[UrCaliGirl 28]

I had regret at about week 3 post op. It is normal! I am 2 years post op now and do not regret the decision!

Below is an idea of the stages you go through in the beginning. It has so much to do with your hormones and brain. As you lose the weight your fat cells release hormones. On top of the increase hormones your brain is having a temper tantrum. You are not able to give it what it wants - food. So it does everything it can to make you give in and eat food. It will pass, but the first month can be difficult, but afterwards it is great! You can survive the first few months!

Here is my experience of the stages. The hardest was the emotional part. I hated being a teenager and I really hated feeling like an emotional/hormonal prepubescent teenager at 30+ years old.

Stage :

1 - what the hell did I do

2 - first stall - usually hits around the first month - people usually freak out a little during this stage. No it does not mean you have failed

No it does not mean you are done losing weight

No it does not mean you are a failure

3 - what the hell did I do stage - again

4 - stage 3 is closely followed by raging hormones. You feel like you are a pubescent teenager. Crying at everything and feeling in the mood for a little "fun" ten minutes later. Please be careful during this stage as we become very fertile.

5 - finally hit your groove. Once you survive all those stages in the first 6 weeks you realize you got this and can get through everything! Oh and that's about the time you get to go shopping!

I'm just having the worst time deciding which one to have Bypass or the Sleeve? Do u have any suggestions?

[NicoleSW 78]

I'm having rny because I've heard the acid reflux/heartburn can be terrible with the sleeve and I already have some problems with that if I eat certain foods. I've seen on here where sleevers have had to get revisions to rny. I want to skip that risk entirely. You should go over it with your surgeon to see which is best for you. There are pros and cons to both.