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This is my first time posting here and this thread is by far my favorite!!

Things that I will not miss... As I read through all the previous posts, I could relate to the majority of them. Personal hygiene, intimate moments with my husband, doing more things with my kids, not bring embarrassed at my teenage sons' basketball games when I clearly stand out as a very large woman, not having feet hurt, not being the big little sister in my fsmily of 9, wearing clothes over and over because I swear I won't buy new clothes for this size agsin, sleeping in the same bed with my husband every night because of my snoring due to my large neck and chest fat... Oh I could go on and on!!!!!!

Thanks so much for this forum!!!!'

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I meant "NOT" sleeping in the same bed with my hubby because of my snorif

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I'm not going to miss all the stupid guilt about being fat, or obsessing about food... And I'm certainly not going to miss wearing ugly misshapen clothes!

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I won't miss my family judging me all the time, and saying how fat I am everytime they come around.

People telling that nobody is going to hire me just because of my weight.

And hating shopping because I had to buy ugly clothes just because they fit me.

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I won't miss all the asshole men who mistreated me because of my weight and me being stupid enough to allow it! Fucking jerks!

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I won't miss side boob! Nothing can look good with side boob.

Pretending I hate amusement park rides.

Knowing that it would be cruel to ride my horse at my size

Showing horses roping, reining barrels. Cutting.

The fear that I won't be able to stand after being on my knees stacking a dog in the ring.

The sound of my fat slapping when I run too exuberantly. The worst ever!!!!!

Sweating for fun.

People who openly think less of me based on size. Refusing to be in a photo.

Sky diving

Spear fishing

Ridding a small plane where you must weigh in

Being worn out playing with my little minions!

Crowded elevators

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Owning beautiful jewelry and not being able to wear it. #fatfingers

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I'm not going to miss having NO energy!!! I mean I don't feel like doing anything because I don't have ANY ENERGY!!!! It's quite frustrating!

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For me it's this...and it just happend to me AGAIN toady. When little kids mostly toddler walk up behind you and you move and because of your side you bump them so hard they go flying and fall. I hate when that happens. Makes me feel like a freaken whale and I just feel like everyone is saying gosh shes so FAT!

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I won't miss hip and knee pain. I won't miss wanting to stay in my house because I am ashamed of myself. I won't miss getting winded going up stairs.

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I won't miss hip and knee pain. I won't miss wanting to stay in my house because I am ashamed of myself. I won't miss getting winded going up stairs.

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I won't miss hip and knee pain. I won't miss wanting to stay in my house because I am ashamed of myself. I won't miss getting winded going up stairs.

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I won't miss hip and knee pain. I won't miss wanting to stay in my house because I am ashamed of myself. I won't miss getting winded going up stairs.

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I will not miss not doing things I really want to do (scuba dive, zip line, horseback riding...) because I'm too big and uncomfortable to do them.

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