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You know what I mean. You run into someone you haven't seen for some time, and they remark on your weight loss, but in a weird way and you're not sure how to take it. I ran into another mom I know from my sons school (as in not a close friend or anything remotely like that) and she noticed the weight loss, asked what I was doing etc. And then she says "oh your husband must love it!"

What?? What do I say to that? That was weird. Like "nah, he likes his ladies large" or "yeah he was packing his bags before I lost the weight". Awkward!!

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You know what I mean. You run into someone you haven't seen for some time, and they remark on your weight loss, but in a weird way and you're not sure how to take it. I ran into another mom I know from my sons school (as in not a close friend or anything remotely like that) and she noticed the weight loss, asked what I was doing etc. And then she says "oh your husband must love it!"

What?? What do I say to that? That was weird. Like "nah, he likes his ladies large" or "yeah he was packing his bags before I lost the weight". Awkward!!

Your hilarious! I hate when your standing there not knowing what to say??? Like is it ok to be totally sarcastic? Are they really that much of an idiot?

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My reply would have been something along the lines of..."He's kind of struggling now, he is a chubby chaser!"

In all seriousness, where do people come up with this stuff? "Your husband must love it!" Like you were unloveable, unattractive, unworthy of attention...Ugh!

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Am dying laughing here.

What un-self-aware imbeciles.

That's a social version of Tourette Syndrome.

Shaking my head!

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Invite yourself over to her house and wear your cutest, tightest outfit. Let's see if HER husband loves it.

Btw, what an ass she is.

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These are the sorts of things that do not require any sort of response. Just heap a healthy side eye and general snarky disdain.

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I can't stop laughing because I have run into awkward questions like that. I am extremely sarcastic so usually without hesitation I would say something off the wall and not expected which I love their reaction to it.

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"Actually he's always loved me....Now, what lets talk about YOUR body (or marriage)!"

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