female only I'm a good... Flirt?

[bikrchk 1,313]

Let me preface this. This is an NSV for me. Fat girl all my life, teased by boys from an early age, shunned later, I, (as many of us I'm sure), learned to remain "aloof". Show no interest and they'll leave you alone and not hurt you. This makes for a "cold" and rarely playful adult woman. So the NSV... I'm chatting with this guy I've met on-line who I have a date to meet in a few hours and he flirts a bit. I actually managed to come back in such a way as to elicit the comment, "You're a good flirt"! Funny that that's a milestone for me, but it totally is, to have the kind of confidence to take that kind of risk! So wish me luck with this one. He looks kinda cute and he's funny. And he's a good flirt. LOL

[Jersrose43 837]

You go girl!

[bikrchk 1,313]

So the date was... Meh. Think it was a new record. Less than an hour, but not an all bad experience! Back in the pool for me!

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

Good luck. Online dating definitely has its ups and downs. It's good practice, even if the date turns out to be someone who you have no interest in.