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thank you 1day

it means a lot that you took time out for me and wrote me something

very very nice....it brightened my day as i read this..thank you....HUGS

wow, My heart goes out to Carolina Girl and to tbahm. Carolina Girl, condolences on your mother's passing. May her memory be eternal and all of the happy memories fill your heart.

tbahm....please focus on yourself and getting over your surgery. Once you are feeling better and you've gained your self confidence from losing weight, start looking for another job. There are lots of hospitals, physicians offices etc that would love to have someone of your caliber and job skills. Once you have found that new job, it might make you feel better to tell that Office Manager that calling employees "b*****s' is as unprofessional as a manager can be. The role of a manager is to be a leader and set a good example for other employees so that an atmosphere of camaraderie exists so everyone is on the same team with the same goals. Obviously this manager has issues of her own and has very poor management skills. Don't take her attitude or behavior personally....she is acting out due to not being able to deal with her own problems. Keep telling yourself that you are above all that and you are better than that and you don't need to feel bad. Have pride in your work and in yourself and let that speak for itself. Life will get better, have a little faith and patience and don't be afraid to make changes when the time comes. Good luck to you.

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Awe Sharpie thanks for those words. I wish you could go to work for me also. When the day comes for me to retire from there I will be a much happier person.

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I would call the department of labor and sue the shit out of that place! Verbal abuse will def get you a win and if you need fmla that will secure your job! Please find a new job or go out on a stress leave and sue these people!

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