nieuwevis 294 Posted September 3, 2014 I'm still in the deciding phase... I'm on this site for more info and, well, courage. two of my sisters in law have done the bypass and were successful. i just had my first baby in april and am two years married... I'm also scared of what could happen. and i have the same conflicting feelings you have! but think about how much more improved your life will be! lol I'm telling myself that too! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites