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@@elpasovet, so far you are the only negative person that I've seen so far on this site. Please don't attempt to create something that doesn't exist for your own personal entertainment. Everyone on here is here for a reason, emotional stability, someone to relate to, advice / direction and sometimes a shoulder to cry on (and sometimes the honest truth).

I think the OP may have just been expressing her opinion of some things she has seen but I'm not sure exactly what she was referring to. I have seen some negative and rude posts from people albiet they are few and far between. Like one of the others mentioned above. If you see something you don't like it is probably better to move on and not engage in the negative dialog. This is a great site but unfortunately we are dealing with humans and none of us are without a few flaws and we don't all communicate as well as some others.

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I think the OP may have just been expressing her opinion of some things she has seen but I'm not sure exactly what she was referring to. I have seen some negative and rude posts from people albiet they are few and far between. Like one of the others mentioned above. If you see something you don't like it is probably better to move on and not engage in the negative dialog. This is a great site but unfortunately we are dealing with humans and none of us are without a few flaws and we don't all communicate as well as some others.

That's true. We all make mistakes including me. Trying to work on that. It's very hard coming from a very abusive past.

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What does OP mean? Lol. I keep seeing it and don't know the meaning. Sorry this is off topic just curious.

It means "original poster" (the person who started the thread).

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First post the other day, and I already felt attacked! Kill them with kindness - just thanked him for his support. Can't deal with my own inner demons, close family and friends who have their opinions and complete strangers as well...

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"It's not what people call you, it's what you answer to!! " That Madea sure is a smart lady :P

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