somebody please put a foot in my a$$!

[mrshawk92 20]

please help! i have fallen into complacency....i was all reved up and rearing to go mexico (haven't decided on a doc yet) then i fell off the motivation bandwagon. i think a lot of it is coughing up the dough, but the biggest lack of motivation is the absolute stonewalling i am receiving from the hubby. so, HELP!, i am in the comfort zone trap! if i can get over the fear of taking on the debt, i'm golden....(sounds horrible, but screw the hubby if he is going to act like this) and please, you may mean well, but i don't need ways to talk to him. i have tried everything! he is ACTIVELY making it harder for me to go. i need talk about bang for my buck! LOL!

[Cupcake 801]

Hi this site has wonderful plans and amounts regarding surgery in Mexico please check them out, I do not feel there is no price or debt that is not worth me being healthy your debt will triple if you do nothing and continue to be overweight results in huge hospital, doctors, and medicine bills that is associated with obesity such as diabetics, high blood pressure, high chloysterial , heart attack, kidney failure etc you have made the choice yo be healthy now go for it you deserve it .

[OCSlim 63]

I would venture to guess that your hesitancy may be coming from a place other than just the money, because you knew the cost when you first explored this option, and it didn't deter you then. Maybe your husband's negativity is wearing on you and creating doubt. You're in a tough situation, as I know how badly loved ones can sabotage you when you're working on self improvement. It leaves them feeling very threatened and vulnerable. Additionally, your positive changes will open options and opportunities for you that may have you scared too. All you can do is trust that you are deserving of looking and feeling better and all the wonderful things that will come with that! This is not an expense. It's a very wise investment that will SAVE you money many times over through the years. You go girl!!!