yummymummy32 30 Posted August 19, 2014 Does anyone wish they were still fat from a vanity point of view? I know I'm healthier and I'm only halfway but I'm already noticing the empty hanging skin,when I was bigger it was filled out and plump! iv less confidence now and trying to hide it in clothes is a nightmare excerise only does so much, I know u can fix the stomach legs etc but what about the bum and back,am I facing a lifetime of hiding skin and feeling disgusted and self conscience then the scars of multiple surgerys to partially fix it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
madwife2002 110 Posted August 19, 2014 NO I don't want to be fat again even with the hanging skin-its the way I feel so much more healthy now 1 sweesee reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pink dahlia 2,513 Posted August 19, 2014 God. No. Never again. I dont have saggy skin so I cant speak about that, but im way happier and healthier than ive been in a looooonnnnnnngggggg time. I still have 20 extra lbs, a chubby tummy, and far from perfect skin, but I'll still take all that over being overweight ! Hopefully you will be able to see the positive over the negative soon. Good luck ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LipstickLady 25,682 Posted August 19, 2014 Hell to the no. I look great in clothes, not so awesome naked. Before I looked not so great either way. Added to that, I'm healthy. Win! 1 sweesee reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SandyM 1,956 Posted August 19, 2014 Absolutely not. I don't enjoy the loose skin, but I love tying my shoes without being out of breath. Riding 12 miles on a bicycle, wearing normal clothes and the list goes on. So I won't wear a bikini, I'm lovin this. 1 sweesee reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
newat52 1,613 Posted August 19, 2014 No! Never, ever. I had saggy skin before and I still do. It is what is is. Never want to go back. I'll take the daily struggle to keep it off over the struggle to get through the day as a heavier person. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krystal W. 13 Posted August 19, 2014 So I am pre-op and read this. I love you for posting this question. I have friends and coworkers saying aren't you going to worry about all that skin afterwards? Umm yeah I thought of it, but this is what I am thinking of.. why I want surgery.. I want to fit in any old chair, I want to be able to keep up with my kids, go on a bike and not have the fear of the tires popping off. Being able to go on an airline without thinking of a seat belt extender, or better yet going to the amusement park and being next to my kids. If you are self conscious of skin, wear some layers to hide it, and invest in some spanxs, if it covers the dimples and yanks you in, I would imagine it would smooth and pull in skin quite nicely. No need to ever be fat! You've worked hard, enjoy yourself! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lilijo 187 Posted August 19, 2014 He'll to the no! I never ever want my weight back. I look too damn good when fully clothed. Only one person sees me naked, and he's not complaining. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonlitestarbrite 902 Posted August 19, 2014 rather be alive and be a saggy bag than be dead. i didnt have this surgery to look good naked, i had this surgery to save my life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yummymummy32 30 Posted August 19, 2014 Sure I'm glad I can wipe my ass now but even though I can wear shorts short sleeves etc I can't because I'm gross I'm hiding the same way cos of skin Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
labwalker 1,177 Posted August 19, 2014 Some really funny replies!!! LOL! No, I'd never want to be fat again.... I can see that I may have some saggy skin below my belt line, but since I usually wear pants I don't think that will be a problem! It looks my arms, legs and upper body might be spared; so I guess I'll be lucky in that respect! My ass and stomach might become saggy, but no one wants to see that at my age... I scare the dog when I get out of bed in the morning, but it doesn't bother me. I'm kind of hoping I can find some exercises that will help tone me up and do something for that problem should it get to a point where it is worrisome. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustWatchMe 7,117 Posted August 19, 2014 (edited) My boobs deflated. Before anything else did. But the good part is I can cross my arms now. I also fit in a movie seat without spilling over. Did I mention I can cross my arms now? I find myself doing it all throughout the day. I'm easily amused. Edited August 19, 2014 by JustWatchMe Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Julie norton 2,850 Posted August 19, 2014 This is a funny thread. Never ever going back. Don't want to feel self conscious.....don't want to be uncomfortable lots of the time....want to have this great lifestyle and feel healthy Done with the daily struggle of fighting hunger all day. Happy and imperfect. Heck ya Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ppw 18 Posted August 19, 2014 The surgery isn't about vanity; it is about health. Maybe you had the wrong expectations going into the surgery. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yummymummy32 30 Posted August 19, 2014 I just didn't expect to still have to wear loose clothes to hide my saggy ass and back boobs! When u pair that with constant hunger having zero energy and tearing my ass every time I have to poop and my hair falling out so bad I'm going to have to wear a hat for the next year and becoming a social recluse cos I can't go out to eat anymore and can't enjoy food anymore loosing my boobs and the frustratingly slow weight loss only 50lbs in 7 months then yes maybe my expectations were too high Share this post Link to post Share on other sites