Pepper123 320 Posted August 13, 2014 Good for U!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonlitestarbrite 902 Posted August 13, 2014 rocking your saggy ass! woot! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chelenka 827 Posted August 14, 2014 Thanks everyone for the great responses! It occurred to me that I pedaled my bike standing up! I never was able to do that when I was heavy. Now it's become so much easier for me that I did without even thinking. I guess that comes under the heading of NSVs. 4 NewSetOfCurves, MichiganGirl, thesuse2000 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Forsythia 882 Posted August 14, 2014 I bet that felt good. That assclown was probably smugly stroking his ego and the fact that you came back and gave it too him probably ruined his buzz. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Susysleever 265 Posted August 14, 2014 Not everyone can have a Kard-ass-ian silouette. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
terry1118 1,274 Posted August 15, 2014 I beg your pardon for the title but a young person of the male gender (won't refer to him as a man since that implies a level of maturity that he obviously doesn't possess) hollered at me whilst I was riding my bike "you have a saggy ass so you better move it!" Although it is true that I have a saggy ass and many other saggy body parts, I've gotten complacent I guess about fitting in with regular, non-obese, folks and was rather taken aback. Having been obese and for my entire life I have been on the receiving end of many a cruel remark or look of disgust, pointing, stares, snickering, even unwanted groping, more times than I can count, sometimes from members of my own family. I usually turned the other cheek and went on my way. Today, however, I found myself boiling over with anger. I caught up to said young person of the male gender at a stop light and yelled at him "my saggy ass is better than your flat d**k!" Then I stood up on the pedals and rode furiously away. I'm feeling a bit ashamed of myself for stooping so low. Awesome!!!!! Maybe he'll learn to keep his mouth shut? :-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Teachamy 1,042 Posted August 15, 2014 Nice! Good for you, and thanks on behalf of the rest of us! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiDaisy 0 Posted August 15, 2014 That is SSSSSSSSUUUPPPPPPPPPPPEEEEERRRRRR!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sunshine22 55 Posted August 16, 2014 Wow, wow, wow...you are awesome!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4me4them 381 Posted August 16, 2014 Awesome post! I may not have the courage to say it but I will certainly think it if I'm ever in that situation... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustWatchMe 7,117 Posted August 16, 2014 http://m.tickld.com/x/next-time-someone-says-women-arent-victims-of-harassment-show-them Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Roostertail2 98 Posted August 16, 2014 I was blessed with a nice round butt- other half is afraid I am going to lose it.. I hope not but if I do that's ok cause I will rock whatever I am left with. People are the cruelest creatures on the planet! I find though that the nasty ones are the most insecure. Becoming thinner or being fat doesn't make a person any prettier when the insides are ugly. I would rather be fat and surround by other fat people who are kind than give a second of my time or consideration to a mean Nasty person. So good for you for standing up for yourself! Don't ever let anyone ever take your sparkle. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gowalking 10,790 Posted August 16, 2014 Doesn't even have to be weight related comments. For the first time in years, I spoke up for myself the other day. I was heading up the staircase at the train station. The escalator was out of service but for once I didn't care because I was thrilled that I could get up those stairs. Just so happens that a train let people out at the same time so there were alot of people heading down as I was going up. A man made a remark about stupid people and I knew he was aiming it at me. I shot right back and said he didn't own the staircase and he was rude on top of that. Now, if you know the city, you know that people mouth off all the time. I never did this before because I was always terrified that someone would just call me a cow and that would be the end of me. Not any more...not this new gal. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mick 99 Posted August 16, 2014 My butt has disappeared! It is almost gone! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites