Christian Boylove Forum - It's good to see mainstream Christians loosening up a bit

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Yes, a homosexual is born that way and thus cannot and should not be expected to change. Nor should he be viewed as abnormal or a sinner. This is an issue of nature.

A paedophile, as with all others who are in the thrall of specific sexual fetishes or compulsions, are individuals whose sexual nature is the result of early (childhood) imprinting. This is of course the result of nurture. Some sexual fetishes don't hurt anyone and are considered to be benign or quirky. These are personal kinks or compulsions in taste which don't hurt anyone. Paedophilia is not one of these. And it seems that our current psychiatric techniques are not all that effective in dealing with this issue.

This is, as I understand it, a real tragedy for most paedophiles genuinely do love children and don't want to hurt them. They are aware that they are doing wrong, are filled with self-loathing and yet seem to operate under a trance. True sadist paedophiles are, I have heard, relatively rare.