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This is my first time posting. Getting a bit nervous about my surgery. I am 9 days out. Scheduled for the 31st, with final consult, and blood work on the 28th.

My mind is going about a thousand miles an hour.

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Welcome! I understand about having anxiety. So many people said that this surgery changed their lives for the better. Keep you eyes on the prize!! Congrats for getting this far in the process.

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Hey!!! You do not have to be overworked thinking only about the surgery.I know it is easier said than done but do give it a try. Think of the good times after the surgery.We will all being praying for you and all will be absolutely fine.Good Luck for the surgery.Do keep us posted on the developments.

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I understand. Breathe -- slowly -- in -- out. Focus on whatever you WANT MOST to happen. Meditate on that.

Best wishes.

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Welcome! I bet that even though this is your first post, you have been reading a lot of other's posts to help prepare for the changes ahead. We're all rooting for you, and can't wait to hear your updates. Meanwhile, try doing something totally out of your usual activities to take your mind off of your anxiety. Maybe, window shop online for all the new clothes you will want to wear after your weight loss! If you're into Pinterest, start a page for "things for after WLS".

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Thank you all for the support.. It is really great to know that I do have a place to go where others have shared the same type of challenges and surgery.

I am looking forward to the after affect. I have two amazing children. One is 14, the other 3. I am looking forward to running around with both, playing all sorts of sports with them, and especially taking hikes with the whole family. My wife Dorene, is very supportive as well. She is taking next week and the week after off to help with my healing time.

I have certainly been reading about other members here who have been very successful with the surgery, and the of course the ones who have had struggles. Just scary thinking about my eating habits and what they will become. We get so accustomed to the same thing in life, and when faced with changed we get a little overwhelmed. Part of life though.

I will keep you all updated with progress.

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