NYDani 2 Posted July 16, 2014 I just had my surgery and I am having a lot of anxiety. Did I do the right thing? How long will this feeling last? I have been walking non-stop but I can't sleep. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kris05 0 Posted July 16, 2014 Hi I had surgery July 14 like you. Not having anxiety but I do feel "moody". I have pain in the incision site and feel overall weak. Can't wait till it goes away. The meds gross me out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bruce120 19 Posted July 16, 2014 I had my surgery on the 14th too. Seems to be an inordinate amount of members here that were banded on the 14th! I wish we can all form a BOND and keep in touch and support each other. I'm having a lot of pain and discomfort as well, hope it goes away soon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cindi2014 57 Posted July 17, 2014 I promise you all that it will get better. I had discomfort for a week, I couldn't sleep on my sides for 2 weeks. I recommend walking as much as possible, will help you feel better and also will help with the gas. Also, don't be afraid to take the pain medication. I took it for a solid week and had no problems. I also think it's a good idea to start taking a stool softener. I suffered terribly from Constipation and wish someone had told me to start with them early. Other than that, you'll do great. Most importantly, stay positive and look forward to reaching your goal. You can do it. Just keep saying that over and over. 1 newme62633 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dragon Lady 59 Posted July 17, 2014 I was banded on the 15th, and I think a lot of my weird feelings had to do with the anesthesia leaving my system. The pain meds knock me out, but work, and my homedics shiatsu back massager is doing wonders for the gas pain. 1 2muchfun reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gowalking 10,790 Posted July 17, 2014 I see most of you are from NY and I also see you've been banded at NYU and I see a Dr. Geiss patient as well. We're going to have a support group meeting on August 2nd in midtown. If any of you are interested, feel free to PM me or LisaCaron...my co-leader for the local support group here in the city. 1 Dragon Lady reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rose2014 81 Posted July 17, 2014 Congratulations to all of you for taking that step to be a healthier "YOU". I was banded 5/27/14 and it has been a good experience overall. The feeling of did I do the right thing I am sure will go away eventually, I still am having them but again I am only a lil over two months post-op. You all will do great just remember listen to your doctor and follow the plan as best as you can, the band is your friend not your enemy. Congrats Again!! Rose 1 Makinchanges4me reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElectricBoogaloo 337 Posted July 20, 2014 I was banded on July 14th, too. Just taking it one day at a time! I am having some pain and GI discomfort, but it is much better than Monday. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GRE110 10 Posted July 20, 2014 I was banded July 14th also! Good luck to everyone Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NolansNana 210 Posted July 21, 2014 Good luck to all of you! Every day will get better. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Garym 1 Posted July 24, 2014 Hang in there. It took me 10 -14 days to feel normal again. The weight loss is amazing though. Keep exercising and you will feel better everyday. 1 Vtsoutherngal reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bulawookie 116 Posted July 26, 2014 Anxiety is caused by the difference in how we want things to be and how they are right now. Practice mindfulness. Ground yourself by feeling your body and where it is now. Thinking too much about the future or the past causes anxiety because we don't have control over the past or future. But we do have control over the present moment. Focus on your present moment. Grant me the serenity to accept the way things are The courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PDB41017 16 Posted July 26, 2014 I was banded July 3. I have felt almost zero pain since the day of the surgery. I'm just getting to soft food and you really have to remember to eat slow and not drink while eating. That's been the hardest part. Get my first fill August 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
briefs199 337 Posted July 27, 2014 Can't wait for the day when I can post that I just had my surgery. Congrats to all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites