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HI..

I joined this group as the partner of someone in the process of seeking a referral to see a surgeon...someone that I love with all my heart...

I want to learn more than what I am told of the procedure, the setbacks (yes, I'm sure that there are some), and how partners can support and guide their loved ones through the terrible times to the final goal...AND I am more than sure that I can learn what there is to know....

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Welcome! There is lots of information on these boards, and it you start reading the posts you will learn a lot. Ask any questions you might have.

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I think it is a true testament to your love for this person that you are here wanting to learn how to support them. I commend you on that effort.

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How awesome that you are offering such sound and strong support. Your counterpart will surely succeed with you in their corner.

I learned so much about being banded here. This site is priceless. Go to the home page and one by one select each thread and read for answers to nearly any question you may be having, or start a new thread with any question, and you'll be amazed at the open, inviting sincerity behind the myriad of responses you'll get.

Good Luck!

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My husband was raised to be extremely selfish, but like he tells his friends, "Lisa knocked all the rough off me." He'll lean over my shoulder and read a post from time to time, but the fact you came here on your own really touches a soft spot in my heart.

Good luck to your loved one. I found this board before I got my band, and it's been my savior. I can't even imagine having a band and not knowing about this site.

Thank you to all my friends that pull me through the goods and the bads. Smooooochh!

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