Pre-surgery jitters

[ashleyxoxo 4]

Hey guys, I just got word that I am approved for surgery. I am having mixed emotions. I am very glad on one hand. I know this is the change I need in my life. I am 28 years old and have been overweight most of my life. food is such a huge comfort for me and the thought of losing that is terrifying. I have been sad and depressed ever since hearing that I am approved. Sounds stupid right? Like I said, I know this will be life changing for me, for the better I am sure. I also do not have much support from my family. They are concerned and only are thinking of horror stories they have heard. Has anyone else dealt with these emotions? I am looking to have surgery the last week of July.

[sotabee 15]

I completely understand how you feel. I have surgery 7/10 and ever since scheduled so freaked out. Not many know I am doing this as when even mentioned many many mnths ago nothing but nrgative respnse, your not big enough, diet and exercise, really been over 100 pounds over weight for last 20 years and timer for change.

[ashleyxoxo 4]

It's the exact same way for me. I have told limited family and friends. I know when my other friends, family and co-workers find out they are gonna have a fit. I can't help but feel that their motives are not genuine. I really think that some are jealous. I know many people see this as an "easy fix" and to be honest I used to feel the same way. I realize now how hard this is going to be.

[McButterpants 2,846]

Hi there! Congrats.

You are so young and it's so awesome you're doing this for yourself. I'm 44 years old - I went into this hoping that my only regret is that I didn't do this sooner. That is a true statement. I lost too many years to being overweight, unhealthy and unhappy.

Kudos to you for nipping this in the bud! I have no regrets - my life is awesome now!