VSGAnn2014 12,992 Posted June 21, 2014 I have always loved to write, but I've never really believed in my abilities. Low self-esteem has really held me back. I believe once I shed this weight and deal with the emotional issues that brought me to where I am today, I have a real shot at living my dreams. I want to be a successful published author, whose books sell all over the world. Then I would have an excuse to travel...for book-signings! LOL! I LOVE to travel too. One becomes a writer by writing. You don't need to feel better to write. You just have to write. That's all. The more words, the better. You don't need to edit yet. Just write. Write. 5 JustWatchMe, nerms, Sparklingbeauty53 and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElyQuint 446 Posted June 21, 2014 I think I would like to live more independently now. A more off the grid lifestyle where my needs are met naturally and more creatively. I'd like to learn to make furniture rather than trading my time for money to pay for furniture. If only they had a surgery that removed 75% of my student loan debt. 2 nerms and Sparklingbeauty53 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lynn2win 142 Posted June 21, 2014 An actress...tire of the 9-5 job and want to be more free...Melissa McCarthy watch OUT!!!! LOL 2 nerms and Sparklingbeauty53 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
michellew1 72 Posted June 21, 2014 I am currently a Certified Medical Assistant. I did really well in collage and graduated with honors. When I went to extern, I fell in love with helping people more than ever. After graduation, I knew I would get a job right away. I went to several wonderful interviews. But No one ever called me back. During my last interview I had the interviewer tell me that I had all the qualifications for the job, that I would be great for the job, but my weight was an issue. That they wanted a thinner nurse to see their patients. As soon as I got out of her sight, I was in tears. (Can they really say that? Couldn't they come up with a different reason?) I know I am an awesome nurse. I love people. I love making people feel good. And most of all I have the knowledge to take care of people to make them feel better. Maybe once I have my surgery, someone will hire the skinner me. Because I worked really hard and love what I am. 3 LilMissDiva Irene, Sparklingbeauty53 and nerms reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerms 237 Posted June 22, 2014 @@michellew1 wow... So sorry to hear that, the discrimination is crazy. Don't give up though, someone could be normal and actually give you the job because you're qualified. I've been in the same boat, interview after interview and nothing.. I've always had in my head that it was the weight. There's fat haters and there's people who respect other people no matter what they look like. I've seen many overweight women with great jobs, so it's possible! At the same time, if getting the job would motivate you to drop the weight, then use it! 1 Sparklingbeauty53 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kindle 8,667 Posted June 22, 2014 (edited) I think I would like to live more independently now. A more off the grid lifestyle where my needs are met naturally and more creatively. I'd like to learn to make furniture rather than trading my time for money to pay for furniture. If only they had a surgery that removed 75% of my student loan debt. If you lived off the grid no one could find you to collect your debt....go for it! Teehee. Edited June 22, 2014 by Kindle 1 nerms reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BladeFox 235 Posted June 22, 2014 I can't believe they said that to you!!! That sounds like a discrimination case. Wow! I am currently a Certified Medical Assistant. I did really well in collage and graduated with honors. When I went to extern, I fell in love with helping people more than ever. After graduation, I knew I would get a job right away. I went to several wonderful interviews. But No one ever called me back. During my last interview I had the interviewer tell me that I had all the qualifications for the job, that I would be great for the job, but my weight was an issue. That they wanted a thinner nurse to see their patients. As soon as I got out of her sight, I was in tears. (Can they really say that? Couldn't they come up with a different reason?) I know I am an awesome nurse. I love people. I love making people feel good. And most of all I have the knowledge to take care of people to make them feel better. Maybe once I have my surgery, someone will hire the skinner me. Because I worked really hard and love what I am. 3 LilMissDiva Irene, Sparklingbeauty53 and nerms reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kitt3000 757 Posted June 22, 2014 Trust funder. Lol! 1 nerms reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonlitestarbrite 902 Posted June 23, 2014 yoga instructor in Belize. 1 nerms reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sparklingbeauty53 202 Posted June 23, 2014 I want to be independently wealthy-maybe from the beautiful things I create or write. I want to turn that wealth into ways to genuinely help those less fortunate. A best seller author or a recognized artist but definitely do: but I want all of that money to be shared with others. Right now I make beautiful bookmarks that I give away or sell for $2.00. I don't see the independently wealthy part coming anytime soon from that but it does give me pleasure to create, and pleasure to give. 2 nerms and LilMissDiva Irene reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kooky1 96 Posted June 23, 2014 I have two published books and I want to publish more. Once I lose the weight, I hope to add original online content to my resume. In a year's time, I'd like to pitch a sitcom to a production company. 3 VSGAnn2014, nerms and LilMissDiva Irene reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bluesea71 698 Posted June 24, 2014 I already have my dream job - I'm both self employed and I get paid to listen to people talk! 5 LilMissDiva Irene, dawalsh, Kitt3000 and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
latido 178 Posted June 25, 2014 ...to play on the Horowitz Steinway at Carnegie Hall. 4 nerms, RNBSN786, kakaw and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stephnance 8 Posted June 29, 2014 My dream job would be A Movie Critic! I love watching movies and then talking about them! 1 nerms reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites