now I meet a nice guy

[daw3378 93]

When I feel like crap and probably look like it...uggg

[Butterflyhigh 504]

Haha. Yeah me too.

Except I met him about two month pre-op. I liked him, he liked me...but I had this hugh secret surgery looming! I didn't plan on dating anyone until after the first few months of adjusting to my new sleeved lifestyle.

He was such a nice guy, but ultimately I decided that right now I just want to take care of ME. I don't want to spread myself thin (pun!) trying to build a new relationship while working so hard on my physical and emotional transformations.

Plus...I am envisioning getting to goal weight and being so damn hot that I will have a bevy of men to choose from. haha

[daw3378 93]

Thing is he gets my struggle he has lost a bunch of weight, so he gets it maybe not the same journey but similar

[Butterflyhigh 504]

Oh cool. So at the very least you've met a new friend who can understand your struggles. That's awesome! See if a nice friendship can grow...and then see if anything else can grow from that.

[daw3378 93]

Yea I'm keeping things pretty light

[daw3378 93]

But I tell everyone about my surgery

[blondiebabs 214]

Hey I guess if he likes you while you look and feel like crap then that's a good sign he'll be a good one, and be there through thick and thin HEH