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At least that's how she describes it, unfaithful to the old me.

My amazing, gorgeous wife has always said (and demonstrated!) that she thought I was attractive/sexy even when I was up to 327 pounds. Now I am 3 months post op and down 82 pounds to 245 and she is on me like white on rice!

Not that I mind ;) but it is kinda funny to hear how conflicted she feels. She feels guilty when she tells me now that I look good and feels compelled to say, "I thought you looked good before, too".

Ah well, a nice problem to have. When I shed another 40 to get to my goal weight I may just have to fight her off with a stick to get some rest!

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Haha too funny. This will become a most viewed post with that title lol.

PS - Sorry, I didn't realize this was the guys room. I clicked on the link on the sidebar.

Edited by Travelmego

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Who cares if this is the guy's room. I think it is fantastic. No rest for the wicked. LOL Best of luck!

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Lol well remember that every 30lbs for a guy gives you an average of another inch. That also *may* have something to do with it ;-)

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My wife is being unfaithful..

@@justabill

:D :D

when i was a newbie, i saw saw the word "funeral" as a post heading <_<

went to read it figuring it was oviously something about a poor person dying :(

then I realized "they" were referring to their last meal, "food funeral" :)

now i hear about your better half being unfaithful!!! :(

funny how a phrase can be misinterpretted!!!! :lol: :lol:

congrats to you and wiifey ;)

kathy

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Lol, guys at work have been breaking my chops about how much weight I dropped and they will say "hay I heard you're wife is cheating on you with some skinny guy". In all reality I couldn't of asked for a better support partner she's had my back since day 1, weather overweight or skinny I've been blessed everyday since finding her.

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I think this is something that most of us will share after surgery. While our sex life has improved tenfold. The biggest thrill I get is when we get dressed to go out and my wifes eyes light up when she sees me in my "almost skinny" clothes. She gets the look like she wants to take them back off LOL.. and this is after 26 years of marriage.

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