follmerpa 35 Posted June 10, 2014 My wife is allegedly going thru menopause, shes very scary to be around, but the problem I am having is the lack of sex drive on her part. is this normal. Shes only 45. Im getting sleeved in Sept. and soon my libido is going to be thru the roof, I dont want to have sex all alone again. Anybody else with wives in menopause help me out how long does this last. thank you paul Share this post Link to post Share on other sites