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Well, just over two weeks out and had our first guests over for lunch. I cooked roast lamb and lots of vegetables, and I enjoyed some mashed potato, pumpkin and puréed lamb. Felt good to sit with friends at the table and not lose control. Yay!!

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I, actually, find hosting much easier than going to a luncheon. 'cause hosting you ca stay busy or not. Congrats, sounds like a great time and lunch.

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Yum, we'll be right over! Congratulations -- and here's to being able to do the things we want to do, just a little differently. I am secretive about my band but still entertain and go out frequently, I agree with @@kll724 that it's easier to host but I am becoming accomplished at moving food around my plate, covering with lettuce leaves, etc. And of course still enjoying my food, just in a small amount. So happy to be a dainty eater now?

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Sorry, that's not a question mark -- my iPad won't let me edit......

So happy to be a dainty eater now!!!

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I'm supposed to host a luncheon 10 days out. Nervous about it...the ladies coming think nothing of bringing high calorie, yummy food. I am secretive about my band as well...so any pointers would be great. I am only supposed to be liquids 10 days out...so I can't even eat mushies! Any advice?

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Hey Junebug,

I kept myself busy in the kitchen, serving and providing! It was a bit easier for me as my guests all knew about my band, they were all curious, but supportive.

If you don't feel comfortable disclosing your banding, just say you had big dental work and aren't allowed to chew yet ;o)

Good luck, you can do it!

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