female only "doin the dirty" is sooo much better now!

[jenn608 3]

Yes!!! Almost confident enough to try some special moves.... Lol<br> My problem is that I'm only 3 mos out but I have some loose skin on my lower tummy from going up and down in my weight all my life and having babies, so (sorry TMI) when I ride my man my belly jiggles all around lol and if I see it at all it makes me really self conscious. Does it get easier to deal with all that while gettin'nasty?

What works for me- I wear a sexy gown or nighty that I can easily slid up past my hips and down past my breast so that it is bunched in the middle. If he tries to take it off I tell him there's no time I want it now or I tell him it feels good on my skin.

[greensleeve 457]

I had a decrease in desire after surgery and I was thinking this was permanent. I was just so focused on the mechanics of healing and eating, and my response wasn't what it used to be.

But now I feel like I'm more horny than ever. And I just like changing positions, I last longer and feel like I'm more flexible. Definitely a big improvement in an area I didn't think could improve!

[sargah 0]

How long were you told to wait until you could have sex after surgery?

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

It's up to you. When you feel comfortable and can get into a position that works for you without sraining your stomach too much, go for it!

[moonlitestarbrite 902]

Can you share why this book is so great? What does the book tell you ?

not sure what you are asking. maybe look at reviews on Amazon?

i thought the book was very knowledgeable and enjoyed the info in it. H and i found it esp fun to read together.

[scrapbasket 83]

gomekast: pillows! hot tubs! showers! more cushioning on your bed ( foam pad). recliner, get creative and be happy.