☠carolinagirl☠ 18,721 Posted May 29, 2014 wow, i have been banded with plication for almost 2 yrs and been on this forum for 2 yrs 4 months..where has the time gone? i am happier today then i was when i started in Feb 2012...compared to where i am now today.. the only (advice) i want to give is the following (take it or ignore it): call your doctor if you are hurting or concerned or need (assistance w/questions can i or should i eat/do/drink) i strongly advise anyone to do what THEIR doctor says, not mine or anyone elses.. use common sense (you cant gain true weight overnight and you wont lose true weight overnight) eating more calories than you burn off will make you gain weight with or without any WLS reality is clothes sizes getting smaller is a accurate sign of losing weight (dont focus totally on the metal monster) you do not have to be at goal in six months...get there when you do...WLS has no expiration date and last but not least believe in yourself to give yourself credit..you know if you eat too much of the not so great food chioices out there dont say the WLS did not stop you..you stop you.....YOU can control yourself..(you wont step out in front of a train would you??) WLS will help you but it wont be the save all as that part is up to you and me be well and all the best to you. 16 dcooper28, karina33, kll724 and 13 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SillyAuntDi 1,610 Posted May 29, 2014 Speaking truth again this morning Have a great day! 3 kll724, Debbie3sons and ☠carolinagirl☠ reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gowalking 10,790 Posted May 29, 2014 I was wondering when you would start bandsters #6... I loved the post. This is not complicated....rare cases aside, if you want to succeed at this, you will. Folks like you and me, with serious co-morbidities and the other issues surrounding being morbidly obese know this. We are the poster children for following the rules and finding success. Have a great day my friend. October will be here before you know it....can't wait to give you a big ole' hug! 7 ☠carolinagirl☠, jfc193, Debbie3sons and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SillyAuntDi 1,610 Posted May 29, 2014 I have had the best visit with my family this week. Many of them haven't seen me since my surgery. They have commented more than once that I am not eating enough. I just say, "no, I used to eat TOO much and now I eat what I need." I get told how much younger I look. All this because I have listened to my doc, done the things he has asked me to do, and had faith in myself. It's a wonderful thing. 7 naenaern777, Weeviegurl, Debbie3sons and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kll724 3,055 Posted May 29, 2014 Hey Lady, like what you say! And congrats on your upcoming 2nd year anniversary! 3 Debbie3sons, ☠carolinagirl☠ and Weeviegurl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
enjoythetime 1,457 Posted May 29, 2014 "believe in yourself to give yourself credit..you know if you eat too much of the not so great food chioices out there dont say the WLS did not stop you..you stop you.....YOU can control yourself..(you wont step out in front of a train would you??) All truth! Congrats on your upcoming 2 years! Thanks for sharing your awesomeness with us!!! 4 Debbie3sons, Weeviegurl, naenaern777 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jim1967 3,569 Posted May 29, 2014 CarolinaGirl you talk some serious truths.....common sense is huge. Don't let lack of common sense convince you your band doesn't work. On a side note,,, My Father asked me last week if I need an intervention. LOL. "You need to stop losing weight soon". I said that is all nonsense. Plenty more can be lost loose skin aside. I am 5 foot nothing 192 pounds. Not even in the normal BMI range. Slow down comments are coming fast and furious from various people. I know they're just concerned but it is completely unnecessary and borderline annoying. 4 readysetg070113, jfc193, ☠carolinagirl☠ and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gowalking 10,790 Posted May 29, 2014 CarolinaGirl you talk some serious truths.....common sense is huge. Don't let lack of common sense convince you your band doesn't work. On a side note,,, My Father asked me last week if I need an intervention. LOL. "You need to stop losing weight soon". I said that is all nonsense. Plenty more can be lost loose skin aside. I am 5 foot nothing 192 pounds. Not even in the normal BMI range. Slow down comments are coming fast and furious from various people. I know they're just concerned but it is completely unnecessary and borderline annoying. Oh boy Jim....this made me grin from ear to ear! Mazel Tov! You've truly made it once you get the 'you're too thin' comments. Take it from one who knows....agree with them. It stops them dead in their tracks. LOL!! 7 Weeviegurl, Jim1967, ☠carolinagirl☠ and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dawalsh 919 Posted May 29, 2014 Truer words were never spoken! 2 ☠carolinagirl☠ and Debbie3sons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
readysetg070113 1,476 Posted May 30, 2014 Always best advice cg xoxoxo thsnks 2 ☠carolinagirl☠ and Debbie3sons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
readysetg070113 1,476 Posted May 30, 2014 Awesome job Jim !!! 3 Jim1967, ☠carolinagirl☠ and Debbie3sons reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
readysetg070113 1,476 Posted May 30, 2014 There you all are I hate this iPhone app lol. Rob drying why banders 5 was "quiet" Have a great weekend my greatest support system 3 gowalking, Debbie3sons and ☠carolinagirl☠ reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharpie 3,306 Posted May 30, 2014 CG you are a rock star. 2 years and still going strong. I have been following your progress for a year or more. and always admired your "real" comments. yes Jim there are some in every family that make comments like "you are too skinny" . that is music to my ears lol. I am far from skinny but love it when people call me "skinny Minnie". Common Sense is so important in the Lapband life. If you just use it you will be successful. Have a great day everyone. 4 jfc193, ☠carolinagirl☠, Debbie3sons and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustWatchMe 7,117 Posted May 30, 2014 @@CarolinaGirl, just what I needed to hear! Headed to my second fill today. The process continues. Have a great day! 3 ☠carolinagirl☠, Debbie3sons and Jim1967 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
☠carolinagirl☠ 18,721 Posted May 30, 2014 (edited) happy friday banded peeps how the freek are you today Edited May 31, 2014 by ☠carolinagirl☠ 5 lisacaron, gowalking, Debbie3sons and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites