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I had surgery Tuesday, everything went smooth and I was released the next day. So this is now post surgery day 4 and I think I may be slowly losing my mind. I haven't had any complications and I'm not really in that much pain- for which I am grateful on both accounts. But I.am.starving. I am on full liquids for a month and I feel as though I may CRACK. I am getting in most of my Water and a lot of my Protein and I eat a couple tablespoons to a half a cup every 3 hours and all I think about is food. What am I doing wrong??? A month seems like a cruel agonizing joke.

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One day at a time. If that doesn't work, one hour at a time. If that doesn't work, one minute at a time.

Take your PPI, get creative with your shakes by adding SF syrups, find some awesome cream Soups, and enjoy the weight loss. It's worth it. Soooooo worth it.

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I completely understand and its hard and have I cheated yes I have....I had a couple of crackers and then I had pudding a couple of hours laters,,,,its not easy for you or for me..I am only 11 days preop and I would like to say it gets easier so far I try to drink Water and eat popsicles....good luck

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Thank you so much for the reply. My family while supportive, have no clue what I'm going thru. I just blended up some baked Beans and they taste great. I have decided I do need to get more creative if I am going to make it.

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Liquids only for one month after surgery. Wow. That would be hard to do. Yes be creative..ask your doctor about soft foods like lowfat pudding, Jello, applesauce. Etc. At least a little to taste regular foods.

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It's been 10 mths since my band to sleeve revision but I remember that 4 weeks of full liquids like it was yesterday. Definately hard. After being banded in 2009, I only made it to the 2nd week and then I cheated. Regretted it for yrs. I was single back then and it was easier to cheat.

It was also easier to cheat knowing I couldn't really damage myself withe the band. But I could with a sleeve. Plus I gained a "food Nazi" husband who woulda tattled on me had I cheated. I got my hunger back on day 10 (was easy till then) and then I could eaten my arm - had I been able to suck my arm thru a straw. I ate Tomato and split pea Soup, Jello, sf pudding, yogurt, and popsicles. Hot stuff satiates (not "fills" u asn liquids don't do that much) better than cold stuff. So sip Tomato Soup. Sip, sip, sip. Gawd, how I wanted a french fry or a taco. But then I'd be paranoid about causing a leak and my craving would go away - for about 5 minutes.

Nothing I can say that will make u feel better. Hang in there. It WILL get better soon. No, u won't feel "full" while on liquids but u certainly won't die. I wouldn't rush out there and eat something - just in case ur the 4% that get a leak. When ur able to eat soft foods, it will get much better. Good luck!

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I believe you... I'm 5 days post op and this full liquid is starting to suck. I'm not really hungry but I miss eating and real food. I know I can do because I have to but it is hard

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