hass 5 Posted May 16, 2014 When can we start having sex? I missing it. All I want is some raw Protein instead of powder........ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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PdxMan 4,292 Posted May 16, 2014 My doc said whenever I felt up to it, just no circus acts. Take it easy. 4 days post op, here. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hass 5 Posted May 16, 2014 Mine is 3rd post op day but problem is I don't have a permanent partner I need to wait till I fully recover. Our else bad performance can ruin my status... Lol. Pakistani men share a lot and in the end I would be physically fit but sexually frustrated. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marfar7 1,533 Posted May 16, 2014 Gave hubby a "special treat" (thats what we call it) on day 5 cuz I wasn't quite feeling up to it. DId the whole thing maybe at about 2 weeks. Guess I coulda done it earlier but I had a rough recovery and I wasn't gunna push it (no pun intended, really!) Good luck! My dr didn't have any rules on sex either. It was just "known" that we'd wait till we were up to it 1 BladeFox reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BladeFox 235 Posted May 16, 2014 Read a good book... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
momohime 121 Posted May 17, 2014 My surgeon recommended waiting 2 weeks, but well.. that didn't happen. No ill effects here, just be aware of positioning and roughness and such. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hass 5 Posted May 17, 2014 Sex with pain is not fun. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hass 5 Posted May 17, 2014 Obviously, you should abstain from sex until your body has had a chance to heal. If you don’t, you’re risking a hernia and other unpleasant complications. Once healed, your sexual performance should be identical to what it was prior to surgery, as it’s highly unlikely that you would develop issues with impotence. Neither you nor your partner should have any difficulty picking up where you left off — you’ll still be able to turn her on and you’ll still be able to fully satisfy her. In fact, whether achieved naturally or with the aid of hormone replacement, erections will be just as easily maintained and orgasms will feel just as good as they did before, for both you and your partner. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hass 5 Posted May 20, 2014 Well my ex wanted to meet up we all know what that means. Finally I m not missing sex. But the thing is one u do it u wanna do it over n over again. Lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
txsleeve624 62 Posted July 1, 2014 I had sex 4 weeks later Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bpbqueen 45 Posted July 31, 2014 Questions I forget to ask my doctor but you kind people remind me to ask. Gosh, this is there anything Bariatricpal can't answer?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
defibvt 348 Posted February 11, 2015 So???? How is sex now??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheBearguy8 58 Posted April 24, 2017 I'm confused - I think this is the LGBT group and I'm desperate for information to calm me down about fears that just aren't easy to bring up. I am a GAY MAN, I am versatile, but being on the bottom, well it's very important, and I can't get answers about the issues regarding anal sex after surgery. It's not just the obvious, it's fears of elimination patterns being so inconsistent (ahem) and gassy, there have to be gay men reading this who can comment. I'm a guy who added significant Fiber to his diet on a regular basis so as to be having healthy and well formed bowel movements. I think you get it and I'll stop TMI right now - but this is my only real fear going in 3 weeks for surgery. I'm 38 BMI, very active lifestyle, I even like my body generally speaking - except for the belly where I look about 6 months pregnant all the time. It's all right there. I just want to communicate with gay men in this "position" .....ahem....us "situation". 1 defibvt reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
defibvt 348 Posted April 25, 2017 @TheBearguy8 rest assured, your fears are all in your mind. Don't overthink things. Yes, having an active sex life is possible post surgery. In fact, if memory serves me right, about week 10 I had a surge in desiring sex, and nearly wore my partner out. As far as getting enough fiber in your diet, yes that is possible, but always more important is getting enough liquids, getting dehydrated can spell doom to the GI system. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
