bigloser2014 144 Posted May 2, 2014 My Surgery is next Friday, May 9th! I am doing well on my pre-op diet. But as the surgery approaches, I am getting more and more nervous. I have tried to look back at my life and see if there was anything I could have still tried to stay away from such a major surgery. Can't think of anything. I need someone to tell me that I am doing the right thing for my health. Hopefully all goes well! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Snaps 1,323 Posted May 2, 2014 We had a discussion going on about this recently -- it's common to question whether or not you could lose the weight without surgery. I think of that every now and then because I'm pre-op too. Only you can tell if you've done all you could or should before the surgery. It's interesting -- I'm not thinking of WLS surgery as a last resort. Taking unhealthy (and ineffective) diet pills or going on crazy diets that don't provide my body with what it needs to live -- those are crazy, last resort things. This surgery is tested, considered safe and a tool to help me lose weight. It's not my last resort -- it's the best option I have for success. I think what you're going through is normal. Just focus on the things that helped you make this decision and look to the future. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LaurieC 7 Posted May 2, 2014 I went through that same thing during the preop diet. I wrestled back and forth with should I or shouldn't I. Well I did on April 29. I am 3 days out. Still don't know how I would answer that question right now with all the pain I have had but I also had to have a hernia repair as well. I will wait until I am further out before I answer the question of should I or shouldn't I. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fifa_33 4 Posted May 2, 2014 Don't worry everything is going to be alright I'm having my surgery may5th and l be lying if I said I was not nervous but I am. Just don't worry everything is going to be alright!!! Good luck! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebellious Butterfly 91 Posted May 2, 2014 I'm May 12th I'm a little nervous too be I'm also so excited Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DebiWright 7 Posted May 2, 2014 May 6th for me, today was pre-op, signing last consent forms, paying for the surgery! Things got VERY REAL today! I know that if I needed surgery for a tumor or any other life threatning condition I would not question it. So I will not question this because I belive this is life saving for me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
judybomb 0 Posted May 2, 2014 I'm also about a week away, May 13th! I understand your nerves (I have them as well). But know that you are doing this to make a positive change in your life. Think of all the things that will change for the better and about all the things you'll be able to do post surgery. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites