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I feel lucky as well. My doctor and office are just a few miles from my house. The two days I had with a very painful too small band would have been a problem if he was not so close. I called and they told me to come right away and they took out .5cc. I was also self pay and the price included all care and fills and support groups for a full year. I feel very lucky.

My doctor sees me every six weeks. I live less than 5 minutes from his office.

He charged me 10,000 for the surgery including fills and I heard Mexico was 8500. I decided it just wasn't worth it to me to save 1500. Plus I would have had airfare in there and would have to worry about fills. My doctor is really close if I was to get filled too much, he would be a phone call away.

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My doctor sees me every six weeks. I live less than 5 minutes from his office.

He charged me 10,000 for the surgery including fills and I heard Mexico was 8500. I decided it just wasn't worth it to me to save 1500. Plus I would have had airfare in there and would have to worry about fills. My doctor is really close if I was to get filled too much, he would be a phone call away.

that is a major reason I did not choose MX. I wanted to be close as possible to the doctor and did not want to be nickled and dimed to death for aftercare or if any problems arose. As a self pay, everything is covered for life time care-even if i want it removed. As for the original poster not losing-have you tracked your food using fitday or sparkpeople yet?

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Just wanted to let you all know, I heeded your message, increased the Protein and have lost 4 lbs!!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

:clap2: :clap2: Congrats!

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Just curious, when did you all start noticing a change in how your clothes fit?

I noticed a big change at about 4 weeks, and now I'm 3 mos post op, and have only lost 4 lbs this last month, however, everyone is telling my how skinny i've gotten this month? Go figure? I will take my measurements on Wednesday and we'll see how many inches I've lost. My clothes feel looser. I get another fill tomorrow, so hopefull from month 3 to 4, I will have more of a weight loss. I can't complain too much, I have lost a lot of weight in the beginning.

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Medifast has a very good chocolate Protein Bar. I also like their ready to go Protein Drinks. Congrats and keep up the good work.

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Just curious, when did you all start noticing a change in how your clothes fit?

I haven't noticed a change yet, even with 15 lbs down, but i think it's because of my pants fitting the same because of the swelling still in my stomach. My daughter walking behind me said the other day that I look like I am losing weight but I always chalk that off to her knowing about the surgery and trying to give me positive encouragement. It's so hard for me to accept compliments!

When I have dieted before, it usually took 20 lbs. to go down a clothing size and for people to really notice--funny how sometimes they say, "Did you change your hair, or something???" LOL

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Ginger-that is so awesome!!!!!Your success will help keep me on the straight and narrow. See Dislexi-this site does serve a purpose.

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Just wanted to let you all know, I heeded your message, increased the Protein and have lost 4 lbs!!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

Can you let us know what you changed in your diet? What are you eating now as opposed to what you aren't eating anymore? I get stuck on plateaus all the time. I hate it.

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Have you had your thyroid checked, Ginger? If you have an underactive thyroid it can make for a difficult time losing weight.

Kat.

Thank you - I am eating about 1000 calories a day, and exercising 3 times a week. I think I am more depressed now with notloosing than I was before I had surgery. I have not measured, but I haven't noticed any change in my clothes.

This is what I ate yesterday

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5 lbs...WOO HOO! :clap2:

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