Susan Beckman 16 Posted April 16, 2014 I am 3 weeks post op today. Still feeling very tired and like something is stuck in my throat all the time. I can eat yogurt, cheese, eggs and some pureed stuff. I am stil crying al the time because I feel yucky. Plus I have lost 12 sizes and cannot get used to being smaller. I feel like I am losing my mind. I went to my counselor yesterday and it helped. I feel like my doctor is blowing me off about how I feel so I quit calling and complaining about anything. Plus I noticed last night that 1 of my incisions has 2 little plastic things coming from it. I guess they are sutures but again getting the blow off and no return phone calls. I am so ready to just throw in the towel. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Imanurse 27 Posted April 16, 2014 Oh no, going to the counselor was a great start. Don't stop! Have you been to see your doc post op? Yes those are sutures- suppose to be dissolvable sutures but sometime they get missed and need to be clipped. I've had the same thing. Don't get down on yourself, chin up your doing great Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Susan Beckman 16 Posted April 16, 2014 yes i have seen him twice because I had complications. I had a feeding tube for a week and have had fainting spells. Also lots of abdominal pain but he just looks at me funny and says he doesnt think its surgery related. So I go to ER and told them surgeon doesnt think its surgery related and get told that noone will touch me because I just had this surgery. So I am sooo screwed. This was the worst mistake of my life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harley59 67 Posted April 16, 2014 Oh no. Go back to the place in your head - where you would have been so happy to have that much weight off. You are heading towards healthy. Your body is not carrying around an extra 38 lbs.!! Go buy a pretty spring out fit and enjoy the weight loss. Maybe to feel better - stay on the liquid/pureed food, remember the basics to eat slowly ? I would call the surgeon and ask to make an appointment to have those stitches clipped because I am sure it's bothering you and he should fix that. Maybe through reading thru posts you will have ideas of what you could suggest he could try with you. Remember Protein should help give you energy. You can do this!! 1 BigGirlPanties reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigGirlPanties 957 Posted April 16, 2014 I agree with the above statements... once you move past this stage and everything "rights" itself, you will be happy that you did this and forget this stuff...but for now... call your doctor! It's upsetting to hear that a doctor isn't taking the time for his patient after surgery... hopefully you can make an appointment to see him and have all your questions answered, etc. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sleeveless in seattle 208 Posted April 16, 2014 You've lost 12 sizes in 3 weeks?!?! I am 4 weeks today. What you're eating sounds similar to mine except I am also doing Protein Shakes. They really help with the energy. Hang in there; it will get better. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dreamscometrue 262 Posted April 16, 2014 I'm confused as well! 12 sizes?! Can you clarify?! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AuntieLala83 81 Posted April 17, 2014 I am 3 weeks post op today. Still feeling very tired and like something is stuck in my throat all the time. I can eat yogurt, cheese, eggs and some pureed stuff. I am stil crying al the time because I feel yucky. Plus I have lost 12 sizes and cannot get used to being smaller. I feel like I am losing my mind. I went to my counselor yesterday and it helped. I feel like my doctor is blowing me off about how I feel so I quit calling and complaining about anything. Plus I noticed last night that 1 of my incisions has 2 little plastic things coming from it. I guess they are sutures but again getting the blow off and no return phone calls. I am so ready to just throw in the towel. I'm 7 weeks out and I've lost 2 sizes.... How on earth did u lose 12?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loseit2014 8 Posted April 17, 2014 Today I'm going in to my 4th week lost 22lbs but no sizes... congrats eat and drink Protein take your B12 I'm pretty sure that's what helps with energy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Susan Beckman 16 Posted April 17, 2014 I was on my 4 month pre diet before surgery so its including that time. I used to wear a 32 and now I can fit into a 20 or 22. 1 ChavaBling reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChavaBling 145 Posted April 17, 2014 You are doing so amazingly well!! I'm so sorry you're having such a tough time right now. {{{HUGS}}} 1 Susan Beckman reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites