How to Cope?

[dharmawheel 4]

Here I am packing for a vacation I do not want to go on...

Going to Florida, and I am sure everyone knows or remember how miserable it is being heavy in hot weather..We are going to DisneyWorld and I am worried about the humilation of having to get off an attraction because the safety device doesnt fit me. (It happened last year and I was mortified.) Also I will be required to show myself in a swimsuit..-sigh-

It doesnt help that because of this vacation my surgery date had to be moved up. If not for this trip I could have had my surgery on April 22. Now it is on May 12.

Please dont flame me saying I am being selfish and should be happy I am spending time with my family and that it isnt such a long wait, etc. I am already feeling terrible about all of that and that is why I need suggestions on how to cope with these feelings. Advice please!

[Bluesea71 698]

Have you been to Disney World before? In my experience, most of their rides accommodate heavier people (at least compared to other amusement parks.). I have a thick middle and could get on everything. Just avoid any rides you had difficulty on before. I bet you could google the subject and see if anyone has posted any advice/tips. I will admit, when in line for rides, I tend to scan the crowd and find someone bigger than me ahead of me in line. If they get on, I know I will be ok!

Edited April 13, 2014 by Bluesea71

[sleevie.wonder 306]

I had my "last hoo-rah" (more like a boo-rah) at Disneyland 4 days before surgery. I was miserable my feet hurt and I was uncomfortable on most of the rides. A lot of the rides I did not partake for the fear of humiliation. I just kept reminding myself this is the last time I will feel like this.

I was just there two days ago, 50 lbs lighter, and my feet never hurt, I got to ride rides more comfortably, and was actually able to get on Peter Pan with my boyfriend and 4 year old. My butt was always too big to share a ride! I can only imagine how even MORE amazing it will be after I get the rest of the weight off.

The point is, make the best of it, but just remember that all these insecurities and physical limitations will all be a thing of the past soon. I hope you have an amazing time either way.

[mommyof3sweetboys 67]

Your feelings are normal. My family goes to Disneyworld every other year. The last time (last Thanksgiving) that I was there I was so miserable and didn't want to be in pictures, etc. Now, I can't wait until my next trip! I am so happy that the next time I go I will be comfortable in my clothes and not mind pictures. Just go and enjoy yourself and remember that it will be your last time there being uncomfortable. Have a great trip!!!!!