clothes

[oolismom 30]

I'm so glad I checked back in to this site....I see I'm not alone in the clothing dept. I'm down a little over 100lbs and my jeans were starting to be super baggy and my T's well lets just say they're better to sleep in now....I am a seamstress so I took the pants in but the shirts were not worth it to do the same. But I'm having issues with clothes period....My style has always been t-shirts and jeans just be comfortable. I'm not one for "loud" clothes, prints wild colors etc....BUT I want to look like a girl and I'm still in my sweatshirts, tshirts, jeans...I'm having a hard time I guess mashing the two together...I have given away a ton of clothes to a family friend who needed clothing so I have no problem with elimination just replacing with stylish comfortable non-guy looking stuff...I don't know how to explain it...Well here...For example....I didn't have a coat that fit so I went and bought a Carhart hooded jacket...Warm as hell for the cold Oregon winters BUT it's a guys coat....I love the coat but it's deffinately not a girly kind of coat....I guess I'm not sure where I'm supposed to fit in yet....

I cut my hair really short because I have been losing it due to the surgery....But I'm not a guy...I feel like I'm having an identity crisis here....Who or what am I????