mandavander 12 Posted March 24, 2014 I total understand I'm freaking out too. I was 5 weeks post op and went to see my surgeon he told me I hadn't lost enough weight. SW 285 Weight at 5 wks 265 Current Weight 257 He told me I have to lose 20 lbs in the next 5 wks My scale hasn't moved in a wk. I am walking as much as I can, I have 15 mth old I chase around all day. I hate that he is making me feel like I'm a failure already. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amayzme 15 Posted March 25, 2014 I total understand I'm freaking out too. I was 5 weeks post op and went to see my surgeon he told me I hadn't lost enough weight. SW 285 Weight at 5 wks 265 Current Weight 257 He told me I have to lose 20 lbs in the next 5 wks My scale hasn't moved in a wk. I am walking as much as I can, I have 15 mth old I chase around all day. I hate that he is making me feel like I'm a failure already. I don't agree that you are expected to drop an exact amount in a specific time...that is just asking for stress. You work the plan..stay away.from slider foods..and you will be fine. Relax and enjoy your successes !! 1 JillC878 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LipstickLady 25,682 Posted March 25, 2014 I total understand I'm freaking out too. I was 5 weeks post op and went to see my surgeon he told me I hadn't lost enough weight. SW 285 Weight at 5 wks 265 Current Weight 257 He told me I have to lose 20 lbs in the next 5 wks My scale hasn't moved in a wk. I am walking as much as I can, I have 15 mth old I chase around all day. I hate that he is making me feel like I'm a failure already. What's he going to do if you don't? Undo your surgery? Beat you up? Pull off your toenails? Whatevs....! Just keep on, you're doing great. 3 JillC878, Texasmeg and Danni-doinit4me reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seela 1,187 Posted March 25, 2014 I total understand I'm freaking out too. I was 5 weeks post op and went to see my surgeon he told me I hadn't lost enough weight. SW 285 Weight at 5 wks 265 Current Weight 257 He told me I have to lose 20 lbs in the next 5 wks My scale hasn't moved in a wk. I am walking as much as I can, I have 15 mth old I chase around all day. I hate that he is making me feel like I'm a failure already. No pressure! Lol... I really don't understand that. I was a "slow loser" in the beginning then it caught up with me. Everyone's bodies react differently. As long as you're following your plan you will be successful. 1 JillC878 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StephanieRR 131 Posted March 26, 2014 Are you kidding? I would be elated with 37 pounds!! I had my surgery 1/23/14. Mind you I dropped 32 pounds prior to surgery, but the first month after surgery I only lost 13 pounds!! And I did not cheat!! Not even once. I even stayed the same for a week! Everyone kept telling me Wow! Look at you! How much have you lost now?? I hated mumbling 13. My nutritionist was not happy when I asked her about comparing myself to others. So I have not been on the scale since 2/21/14 at my last appointment. I go back this Friday 3/28/14. I was super excited cause I can't wait to see how much I've dropped now. But after reading all these posts about 37-40 pounds since surgery around the same time as myself, I am nervous now. I find myself thinking, what if I only lost another 13?? That would only be 26 since surgery. However, I am going to hold my head high and not dwell on it. My loss is my loss and I feel tremendous and I have been dropping in size!! So be extremely happy with your progress! I am excited for you!! 2 KatieJo4 and JillC878 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites