Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Overeaters Anonymous



Recommended Posts

Has anyone heard of this group? If so, please share any info you might have please!!!

There are no lapband support groups in my area, so I was wondering how this would work?

I still cannot control my eating so I have got to find myself some help.

Let me know if you have information....

Thanks!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hello,

Yes I have heard of OA and attended off and on over the past 20+ years. I have been looking for a meeting in my area that I could attend. OA is based on the same 12 steps as AA (for the most part.) When attending OA I found support from many different "varieties" of overeaters, eating disorders etc. There were very overweight individuals, anorexics, folks who had gastric bypass surgery etc., I felt at home and knew I "belonged." The meetings are based on a spiritual - not religous - program - big difference. I would not have continued to attend OA had it been a religous org. The meetings are sometimes held in meeting rooms in churches - but not "in" the church. I'm considering getting the band very soon. And will probably continue to have some food issues - so I'll probably find myself in a support group. If a lap band group is not available - I'll go to OA.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes I was a member of OA for about six months. It was held at no cost at the Unity Church in my area. There is a book very much like AA and yes, Houstonwehavea said it right when she compared it to the twelve steps of AA. It was beneficial to me to a point and I would encourage anyone to try it. They have their own recovery language like most groups with addiction.

Hope that helped.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I attended a few OA meetings several years ago and it wasn't for me. Granted, I am not much of a group effort weight loss person, though, either. In fact, I have always done better on my own than going to WW or TOPS or any of those sorts of things, so maybe it was just me. The few times that I went, it seemed to me like people were 'blaming' their weight problems on family and other situations and not taking any personal responsibility for their own behaviors. I found it to be kind of depressing, actually.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was an OA member years ago. I lost weight and felt great, then the group was gone and of course, as was always the case, I gained it all back. It is based on the AA 12 step program. The group I was in didn't have anything to do with any type of "religious" dogma. Of course, different groups do different things.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LadyVeteran1

      Sleeve surgery is on April 14th.  I am counting the days!!  Can't wait!
      · 3 replies
      1. Brookie2shoes

        Me too girl!! Are you in the full liquid diet right now? It’s sooooo hard!

      2. LadyVeteran1

        Not yet. I was told I only have to do 24 hours of a liquid diet. But I have my pre-op tomorrow so I’m going to confirm if I need to do longer.

      3. buildabetteranna

        Your so close now! It's gonna be great :) Wishing you a speedy recovery and looking forward to seeing how it goes!

    • buildabetteranna

      Down 33 lbs and slightly stalled, but I'm gonna reevaluate and push through. I started back to work last week after 2 years of being disabled due to mental health as well as my weight. It's a great job and I'm just so happy to have this opportunity at a second chance at life. Hope everyone is having their best journey ❤️ Together, we got this!
      · 2 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Great work Anna! Keep it up 😁

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 1 reply
      1. stevieoriole

        Am feeling this right now. My surgery date is 4/1. Sign the consent tomorrow. I feel like I overloaded myself with too much info, too many opinions. Got to the point where I was wondering if I should do this. Then I thought of my reasons for taking this step and that settled my nerves. Still get moments of doubt but am striving forward. Am just going to follow my book from the surgeon. Joined this because I was told by my dietician that I should do this for support

    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×