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I'm new to this thing and am almost a month post op. I am a woman with a big uuummm vajaja lips. Will that area also get smaller and if so is it saggy loose skin? Not sure if there are any excersizes for that area on the outside. Thank you, Amanda

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Is it just that the lips that are big...as in long?, or thick (fat)? What about the "mons pubis" area--the fat bed behind the hair distribution? Many overweight/obese/people have a large fat pad behind the hair.< /p>

You will lose fat from everywhere. If the actual vaginal labia (lips) are fat/thick, they, too, will likely slim down. Then, they might be thinner and seem slightly longer.

There are some vaginonplasty, and labioplasty (the lips), procedures, if revision is really necessary. But since you've just had surgery, I'd say just watch/wait until you're at goal, IMHO.

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I am worried about this too. :(;(:(

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Wish I had better news but mine did not lose a lot of fat there. This will be on the PS list or asking the surgeon about it. I have heard previously though that some ladies have this corrected only to end up with too much *** exposed... so you know that can be painful. :-( Sorry trying to keep this as clean as I can, but it is the honest truth.

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?.. I have heard previously though that some ladies have this corrected only to end up with too much *** exposed... so you know that can be painful.

That is very true, and that can cause quite uncomfortable problems. Great point, LMD.

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I was curious about this too, praying for a miracle because I only planned on having plastic on the girls!! ;)

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Hmmm ... Good question! I might have to ask my hubby on that one, LOL!!

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A MM generally includes. Breast lift or implants, TT, Lipo and may or may not include labiaplasty. All the things that change with a pregnancy.

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Hi !Ladies I am 7 1/2 mos and starting to think about PS, I'm going to need a breast lift, I don't know the medical terminology but my belly flap,and Since I've lost so much weight my butt is sagging and I have problems cleaning myself sorry TIM. I also need my arms and thighs done.I would love to have a face lift and get rid of my turkey wattle lol. But a lass my insurance won't pay for it unless it is medically necessary.

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I didn't get a kitty lift...teehee... but got significant improvement with the lower body lift.

My advice to everyone early on in the process, don't worry about what might be... focus on getting the weight off, getting healthy and geyting fit... you don't really know what you will be dealing with down the road.

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I will definitely need a TT or Panni and boobs. I had a partial vulvectomy in 2011 due to a ruptured, twisted varicose vein in my vijay jay. It was the most painful surgery. I had no idea what I was going to end up with but it's pretty bad. I contemplated plastics down there but I don't know if I could go through that again. I'm gonna just focus on weight loss for now but I can't help but read these threads. I'm 42 pounds down and hate the panni already. I'm in awe of the pics I see post plastics. It's got to feel good when all is said and done.

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I lost all the fat down there. Not much cushion for pushin' as my husband says. It was fairly fluffy before surgery

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