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my birthday tomorrow the 27th n surgery 6 days away



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Im completely stressed out and so nervous. .. I cant believe in just 6 days I will be a tru sleever. I recently broke up with my now ex boyfriend a few days after valentine's day. To get back with my ex husband who hold my heart but it pains me to hurt some1 . But his feelings for my surgery was fake support and he already started smothering ne after losing a little more the 20 pounds.. knowing that my surgery was 2 weeks away he bought me a bunch of different cakes n brownie n Cookies n ice cream n got mad when I said I cant eat it. He stole my fone to check it kuz he thought I was talking to some1 behind his back. All this because im losing weight I had to leave quick. My ex husband and I had always been friends n about a week ago we talked about giving us another shot. He knows about my surgery n he is ex military n he is willing to help me thru everything. N help train with him to get back in shape. Tho there are things we have to work out n figure where this is truly going weather it works or not he is still willing to be by my side and help me thru my journey. Im so excited yet scared. Cant wait till I can come on here with a post-op story :) so excited

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Whew, you going through a lot over there! Try to utilize this time to mentally prepare and rid of all bad/negative influences, your about to enter into a vulnerable place you have to surround yourself with positivity.

Praying your surgery goes well. Keep us posted post op!

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Whew, you going through a lot over there! Try to utilize this time to mentally prepare and rid of all bad/negative influences, your about to enter into a vulnerable place you have to surround yourself with positivity.

Praying your surgery goes well. Keep us posted post op!

Yup been trying n this weekend will be going over to a more Positive place rather then where im at now. As long ad I have my ex husband n my mother ill be fine for a few days dont know whenbi should return to work tho. And thank you so much

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Good luck! I am cheering for you in all areas of your life.

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Hang in there, Sweeteyes. People may let you down but don't let yourself down. Never give up on you.

Make a future that is much brighter than your past. You can do it!

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Hello fellow pisces Sweeteyes27!!! My Birthday is Friday 2/28 and my surgery is Monday 3/3! I agee with everyone about taking sometime out for you to mentally prepare yourself for this next phase in your life. It sounds like you are well on your way with your ability to take a stance against the exBF's sabotage attempts!!! It's great you have support in your ex husband and mom!

Well I just wanted to give you a shout out since we are a part of an elite group of individuals that were born in the month of February! We are special and for those that don't see, ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!!

Good Luck on your surgery and I can't wait to hear all about your progress!!!

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Hello fellow pisces Sweeteyes27!!! My Birthday is Friday 2/28 and my surgery is Monday 3/3! I agee with everyone about taking sometime out for you to mentally prepare yourself for this next phase in your life. It sounds like you are well on your way with your ability to take a stance against the exBF's sabotage attempts!!! It's great you have support in your ex husband and mom!

Well I just wanted to give you a shout out since we are a part of an elite group of individuals that were born in the month of February! We are special and for those that don't see, ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!!

Good Luck on your surgery and I can't wait to hear all about your progress!!!

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Word lol please post on urs too. We miss a day on both our birthday n new surgery date... pretty close tho... how are u feeling about the up comming date

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Hang in there, Sweeteyes. People may let you down but don't let yourself down. Never give up on you.

Make a future that is much brighter than your past. You can do it!

Thank you your sweet

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