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We had sex 2 days after surgery...it's all about finding the right positions & we found plenty...lol. My doctor said I could have sex as soon as I felt like it...so of course we did :)

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Hi, I waited 3 days....like another post, just took it easy and quick ( from behind, def couldn't take him laying on top of me )...it was fine. Did it again 2 days later, same way....just have to be easy!

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I am 100% not at ALL interested in sex. I'm eight days post op. I don't feel the least bit sexy and if he tried to touch me I might slap him.

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I am 100% not at ALL interested in sex. I'm eight days post op. I don't feel the least bit sexy and if he tried to touch me I might slap him.

Oh thank you for posting that! I thought maybe I was the only one. I am still two weeks away from my surgery, but I have had zero interest in sex for a long time, likely because of how much I dislike how I look. At that said I still participate and love my husband very much--just no eagerness on my part. I am hoping that returns with weight loss! yesterday I put on the nightgown I bought for post surgery recovery time, since all my yoga pants have a snug waistband, I thought a nightgown would work better. apparently it is cuter than I thought, because my husband couldn't stop looking at it and expressed how very much he approved, LOL. I may have to rethink this as a postop night again if that's going to be his reaction!

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