Globetrotter 1,340 Posted February 21, 2014 You are incredibly intelligent and capable, you tried to portray yourself as kittenish and weak for years and that just made you sad, why hide that you are incredibly intelligent and capable? You have always known you are skilled, you actually do have self respect. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feedyoureye 3,087 Posted February 21, 2014 For years you thought that attachment and love went hand in had. Now you can see that attachment is more like an anchor, false security that holds back the best actions of love and kindness. 1 Globetrotter reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Globetrotter 1,340 Posted February 22, 2014 No more hiding, it feels good to be "out", no longer pretending to not be the commanding huntress that you are. Let your ego be what it is, deserved and earned. You are truly learning the meaning of "be yourself" Admitting to the world how bad ass you are is so freeing, they are afraid of you, and they should be. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feedyoureye 3,087 Posted February 22, 2014 You have cultivated a view that is becoming more expansive and awesome to behold. When things get overwhelming, remember to relax and enjoy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Globetrotter 1,340 Posted February 24, 2014 What you have to offer is solid and worthwhile, you have the ability and the willingness to be an excellent friend and you have learned from your relationships, romantic and platonic, where your strengths lie. You have also learned some truths about yourself and you are ready to apply this in your life. You are learning how to give responsibly. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feedyoureye 3,087 Posted February 24, 2014 There are teachers everywhere. Your worst enemy can teach you things that your dearest loved one can't. Cherish all interactions. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Globetrotter 1,340 Posted February 25, 2014 You don't have to be chipper, or ignore bad feelings, utilize them, dismantle them to better understand, your analytical brain is an asset here. Notice the changes in your emotions, in your fears and negative thoughts and anxieties in correlation with your choices in food. Let's use the emotions washing over us to get a real comprehension of food addiction, of addiction in general, you are going to use this in your practice when you are a therapist. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Globetrotter 1,340 Posted February 27, 2014 You have an actual workload now, and there is no reason to fear it, you are actually capable of doing all of it, and you know this. It feels good to acknowledge your capability, what does pretending to be unable do for you? That is old, outmoded behavior that yields no rewards. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
feedyoureye 3,087 Posted February 28, 2014 When things change quickly, you have the capacity to adjust and enjoy the moment. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites