starting to get cold feet

[Lulusmom 16]

My surgery is Monday and im starting to panic!!! Im scared of the surgery itself plus the fear of not getting enough Water and protein.....I don't want my nerves get the best of me and have me back out....I've wanted this surgery for so long and worked so hard to get to this point to have my own fear make me back out at the last minute.....did anyone else feel like this right before surgery? ???

[LyndseyD 106]

I had the same feeling in the pre-op area... almost got dressed and walked out...

Everyone has to make an informed choice. Its a big decision. Nothing wrong with postponing to take some time to think about it if you think you need to. I would rather see someone wait a few extra weeks and make the right choice for them, then rush into something they regret.

[Lulusmom 16]

I have my last appointment tomorrow with the surgeon tomorrow definitely going to think hard tonight and talk to him about it tomorrow thanks for the insight!!!!

[gohelpyourself 377]

Had VSG on Monday... just came home today! Feel great!!! Yesterday was pretty rough. The anesthesia wearing off is the worst I think> I also was retaining urine (not unusual with general anesthesia).. I needed a catheter to drain my bladder. The stomach spasms are no fun but the meds are effective at controlling them. I just ate a greek yogurt and am sipping on a Protein shake... no problems what-so-ever. I am feeling blessed. I think what you are feeling is normal and this site has helped me so much. Good luck.

[Lulusmom 16]

Thanks!!! Good luck with ur recovery!!!

[BestYet2Come 97]

My surgery is Monday and im starting to panic!!! Im scared of the surgery itself plus the fear of not getting enough Water and Protein.....I don't want my nerves get the best of me and have me back out....I've wanted this surgery for so long and worked so hard to get to this point to have my own fear make me back out at the last minute.....did anyone else feel like this right before surgery? ???

You are NOT alone. I got scared the week prior and then 1-2 days before the surgery I started getting really excited about it. If you read enough posts on this board, you will find that is not an unusual pattern.

Just like you, I was in a panic about not being able to get enough fluids, get dehydrated, end up in the hospital after the surgery, etc. RELAX. It won't be as difficult as you think. As long as you sip Water throughout the day, you will be fine, at the hospital and at home.

Be mentally prepared for the first two weeks after surgery. Those were the hardest for me. The thought of having another sip of anything broth drove me to tears. But it too shall pass and soon you will be able to eat nearly everything again.

As a matter of fact, I am 8 weeks post surgery and I can eat everything basically. I have had zero rejection. I can eat nuts, salads, chicken, beef, pork, all fruits, all veggies, dairy...everything (well, haven't really had any sweets - and don't want to). The trick is to eat slowly.

This forum is an amazing support tool. Focus on the reward and don't get scared. You can do this!

Best of luck,

[1Day1Life4Now 882]

My surgery is Monday as well. I had my pre-admit appointment at the hospital today but I'm not getting cold feet. I am so ready for this to happen. I'm tired of being fat. Tired of having to pay extra money for larger size clothing, shoes and jewelry. Tired of not being able to cross my legs. Tired of not being able to buckle the seat belt on the plane. Tired of hurting when I bend over to tie my shoes. I am tired of the lack of sleep I get due to snoring/sleep apnea. Im tired of being tired. With the upcoming weight loss... I am going to feel better, I am going to exercise, and I'm going to feel good about my self again. Yep... I'm ready for Monday and no cold feet for me. I've had about 10 surgeries in my life and came through all of them with no problems. I don't anticipate having any problems with this one either. I have selected an excellent facility and an excellent surgeon. I got this one.

[HHHappy 225]

My surgery is tomorrow and I'm ready!

[one_more_time 145]

My surgery is Monday and im starting to panic!!! Im scared of the surgery itself plus the fear of not getting enough Water and Protein.....I don't want my nerves get the best of me and have me back out....I've wanted this surgery for so long and worked so hard to get to this point to have my own fear make me back out at the last minute.....did anyone else feel like this right before surgery? ???

My surgery is Monday as well....still can't believe that my insurance approved it... I went in on a Thursday for my consult... really just wanted an excuse to leave work early ....talked to the surgeon who is very well known for his revisions in my area...by that following Tuesday his office was calling me asking what date I was available for surgery. I haven't even had time to process the thought of having this done. I don't think it will hit me until Monday morning. I am beginning to get a bit anxious because I am ready to get it over with... but I am DEFINITELY not backing out... I've prayed about it...and I'm good...can't wait 'til Monday.

[veronica.gray 26]

Think about what brought you here...

[Lulusmom 16]

Thank u everyone!!! Im going through I work too hard for this to back out now im ready for the new me.....

Veronica love that saying thanks for sharing.....

Everyone good luck with everything!!!!!!

[veronica.gray 26]

We can do this....I'm scared too but that saying helps me, I'm glad you like it!!!

[gohelpyourself 377]

First couple days are a little rough. Stay on top of the nurses for your meds and you will do fine. I am post op day 3 and I don't even feel like I had surgery.

[morgan53 48]

I had my surgery this past Monday...finally! I had the same thoughts about backing out and my sis did her best to talk me out of it. I am now glad I went thru it cuz I keep thinking of all my reasons why I wanted this surgery. I am sore but the only time I take pain meds is when I go to bed to get a good nights sleep..I personally don't want to become dependent on them. I would be just as happy not have to eat or drink..but I am getting down my premier shakes down! good luck!

[Lulusmom 16]

Today I have my finally appointment with my surgeon hoping I lost enough weight.....wish me luck!!!