Why don't I have any confidence?

[Bella66 13]

I've lost 64 lbs so far on this journey but still have major self esteem issues. Then again I had that problem my entire life even when I was a size 8...I'm guessing maybe it's time to seek a lil help for me. I want to be successful during my journey and I want this so I can be the best me ever. Especially for my family ...

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[ProudGrammy 8,322]

lost 64 lbs - still have major self esteem issues. had that problem my entire life

Bella66

Ahhhhhh you look like the bell of the ball in your lovely pic

Losing weight helps "us" with our health issues

we always will look better while we are losing weight

but. personal situations like self-esteem, confidence - these are things/problems you/others mght have to work on

weight loss can't automatically "fix" all/some of our problems that we've had all our lives

just like us having all that "excess" weight all our lives, it doesn't come off overnight - takes lots of work

confidence issues you've/we've/some have always dealt with that have been around all our lives also won't improve immediately without some work

speaking for myself - I never knew what a lack of self-esteem, confidence i had............

until time passed, feeling and looking so much better

i was dong stuff i would never have ventured to do before WLS

you've lost weight fantastically

i hope you "gain" some confidence et al

you look terrific

be proud with your pretty head held high

good luck

happy holidays

kathy

congrats

Edited December 24, 2013 by proudgrammy

[weightshaker 12]

Well said Proudgrammy!